She wanted the spare key to my room so she could come around unannounced. I didn’t hesitate. I gave it to her. I even affirmed to her that she could come home at any time she wanted without telling me.
She wanted me to introduce her to all the people in my circle. “The world should know that I’m the one you’re dating,” she told me. I didn’t disagree. One after the other, I’ve introduced her to all my paddies. I’m yet to take her home to meet my parents because it’s the last stage before marriage.
She asked if my phone was calling and I wasn’t around, could she pick up the call? I answered, “You can but you should study the name first before you pick up. If it’s an unknown number, don’t pick it up. It could be something relating to my job.”
She wanted my phone’s password. I gave it to her. The first place she went was my WhatsApp. I didn’t bother because there was nothing to hide. Before she said yes to me three months ago, I hadn’t dated for two years. She also gave me her password.
Just yesterday, she asked why I broke up with my last girlfriend and why did it take me two years to date again. I explained the pain I went through and why I decided love wasn’t worth it until I met her. The next demand was, “Can I talk to your ex? I want to hear her side of the story.”
I haven’t spoken to this ex for close to two years. I don’t even have her number saved on my phone though I have it off my head. What kind of insecurity will make a woman ask for this much and still want more? In fact, I got angry. I responded, “I’m not going to do that. The door is not locked. You can leave and never come back if this is a deal breaker for you.”
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She didn’t leave. She stayed to accuse me of hiding my deeds—the reason my ex left. “If you were clean as you say you are, you would have given her number to me,” she said.
At this point, I believe she’s a walking red flag. She has serious trust issues and this will bite us later in our relationship.
She’s been treated badly by guys hence the trust issues but I’ve told her to calm down since I’m a different guy. She doesn’t believe me. She wants to see me inside out to know if I have red blood and intestines like all humans do. Isn’t this a red flag? Or I’m thinking too much?
— Fabian
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Give her my number to call, I will deal with her drastically for you
Red it is . You don’t have to do much for those who are meant to believe you. And for those you do more in order for them to believe will still not believe you because they are not meant to do so or they do not belong to you. Run ,don’t even attempt getting married to her. She needs to work on herself.
Red as crimson flag. Your girlfriend has alot to develop her self-worth personnaly. She has to feel your confession of love and acts of love to feel at ease in your relationship. If she cannot feel your vibe, then it is time to for you to break up with her and have peace. Peace in this turbulent world is more important than any love relationship.
Ask her why she wants to talk to your ex. Is it to clear up misunderstandings, get closure, or gain insight into your past? Understanding her motivations can help you gauze the situation.
I think you love your current girlfriend cos if not you wont be here. In addition, you have to discuss and set clear boundaries with your woman about what topics are off-limits or make you uncomfortable. Openly express your feelings and concerns with your girlfriend. Listen to her perspective and work together to find a solution that respects both of your feelings. She is clearly insensitive, has trust issues and must have gone through a lot with different mean. You don’t have to take it too harsh on her so apply the above mentioned and if she’s still adamant and serious about it, I think it’s time to take a break.
Does that mean what she hears from your ex determines whether she leaves or stays? My dear cut her loose as soon as possible before it’s too late. If you don’t end this so called relationship now, you’ll have to end your marriage with her and nobody wants that. Good luck
Precious minerals come entrapped in a lot of chaff, and so be patient. Let her know that getting in touch with your ex, could come with many complications. If she insists, however, call your ex on speakerphone in her presence, and reminisce with her about your relationship in a way that will bring out the reason for your breakup.
Bro…coming events cast their shadows. Red flag…flee!!!
Don’t marry her else you’ll regret it. She won’t change but rather get worse.