We met on a Whatsapp group and took the conversation outside. She would greet me every morning and I would ask how her night went. I liked her but I wasn’t sure about her personality so I decided to take my time and study her.

The group organized a program and we both went. All evening she was with me, getting touchy and excessively clingy. I love my women like that. I like it when a woman treats me like the air she breathes or the water on her skin. I wanted to propose to her that evening but the man in me chickened out. I postponed it to another time.

Not long after the program, she called one evening and asked if she could crash at my place. I was like, “What is the problem? Is someone pursuing you?” She told me she was in town and it was too late and would be hard for her to go home, especially when she had to come to town early morning the next day to do business.

I met her in town, got something to eat and brought her home. I didn’t think shuperu would happen but it did happen. She was the one who initiated it and I fell for it. It was good. I was looking at her. From every indication, she was enjoying it. In the morning, I made breakfast for her. She thanked me and left. She even told me she would come around again if she didn’t close early.

I called her the whole day this girl didn’t pick up. At a certain point, I started getting scared. I thought something had happened to her. I took a friend’s phone to call and she picked up. That was a day later. I said softly, “You got me worried. Why are you not picking up my calls?”

“Sorry,” she responded.

I was waiting for an explanation but it looked like she was not ready to give me one. I asked if I said something wrong and she answered, “No you didn’t do anything wrong. Just that I didn’t feel the connection I was looking for. Sorry, but it should end here. Let’s pretend it never happened.”

I’ve been worried since the day she cut me off. What’s the meaning if a lady leaves you because of a lack of connection? She was happy and responsive through it all so what’s the meaning of “I didn’t feel the connection?”

—Bill

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