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When you see a story that is yours, you just know it. It doesn’t matter if the details have been altered to protect the identity of the person who sent it. Or if the sequence of events was changed so people who know you wouldn’t know it’s you. There are certain parts of the story that have to remain intact for the message to still hold. Those are the fragments I pieced together in the story Ofori sent. The core elements of the story gave it away.
First of all, I want to state that I have read the comments. Some people said I slept with Caleb. I assure you that nothing of that nature happened. As I write this, I can beat my chest and say that for the past two years, since I have been with Ofori, no man has touched me sexually, let alone seen me naked. I am not that kind of girl.
When I love a man, he becomes my world. I don’t look at any other man. It is for this reason that I don’t jump into relationships anyhow. I like to take my time to be sure that the person I am giving my all to, checks my boxes.
Just as everyone has a list of priorities they look out for in a potential partner, I also have a list. And money is not on it. That brings me to my next point. Some of the comments said Caleb probably has more money than Ofori. Yes, that’s true. But I rejected him all those years because he didn’t have what I was looking for in a life partner. It’s never about money for me.
When I met Ofori it was different. Apart from the incredible chemistry that sizzled between us, he ticked my boxes. I was sure in my heart that he was the one for me. If I was not convinced that I was utterly in love with him, I wouldn’t have been in the relationship for two years.
Now, let me talk about the night I attended the dinner with Caleb. In Ofori’s story, it was stated that I had yet to attend the event. Well, I already attended the event before he brought the story here to be published. And I would like to clarify how things unfolded.
Ofori and I have an open line of communication in our relationship. We tell each other everything. That’s how he knew about Caleb in the first place. Although Caleb and I kept in touch throughout his marriage and even after his divorce, the night of the dinner was the first time I saw him in six years.
Before I attended the event I told Caleb about it. “What time will they start?” He asked. I told him 6:00 PM. He asked again, “And what time will they close?” I answered, “We should end by 10:00 PM. That should give me enough time to get home before it gets too late.” He said he didn’t have a problem with it.
Instead of 6, the dinner started after 9:00 PM. Because of Caleb’s status, we were seated at a table that had a lot of eyes on us. It would have been some way for us to get up just when the event began. So we sat there till the event ended. This was somewhere after 1:00 AM.
I wasn’t the only one who attended the event with Caleb. His best friend and his wife also came along. Unfortunately, they didn’t come with a car. So if we were all supposed to go home that night, Caleb would have gone to drop me off and then dropped off his couple-friends. His neighbourhood is quite unsafe so it wasn’t ideal for him to do that.
We all agreed that the best thing to do was to sleep at Caleb’s house. I, Caleb’s best friend, and his best friend’s wife; all three of us including Caleb spent the night at his place.
The next morning when Ofori called me, I was yet to leave. I could have pretended I was at home if I was guilty of something. However, my conscience was so clean that I didn’t stop to think how it would look. I was the one who told him, “The party closed later than expected so I spent the night at Caleb’s place.” He thought it was a joke at first. I let him understand I was speaking the truth.
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When he expressed his displeasure, I didn’t argue with him or call him names. Rather, I assured him that we were in a group. Still, he said he wasn’t happy with what happened. Calmly, I told him; “You are right to be upset. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn’t be happy to know my partner spent a night in the house of someone who expressed interest in them. I am sorry that circumstances led me here. I promise it won’t happen again.”
I don’t know what else I am supposed to do. I know for the life of me that nothing physical happened between me and Caleb that night. A part of me held on to the hope that Ofori believed me. That part died when I saw that he brought the story here for people who don’t even know me or the details of that night to judge me harshly and insult me.
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I am so sad that this issue which could have been resolved between us is now out here for everyone to see. He hasn’t spoken to me since I returned from the party. I have called and texted him but I have received no response.
So I am here wondering if he is already looking for the opportunity to leave me, and he is using the opinions of strangers on the internet to do it. Whatever it is, I am here to share my side of the story. He may not believe it. The readers may not believe me. That’s fine with me. In the end, I have said my truth.
—Esi
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she came to lie again. The fact that you attended the event is itself a red flag after he opposed it when you mentioned it
I would have left you too, madam. No man or woman in his/her right senses would believe nothing happened. I sympathize with you but you brought it in yourself. Stop. You said a friend of brought his wife so why didn’t you ask him to accompany you. Your boyfriend has every reason to walk away.
Nobody can really confirm what happened that night, for all we know, you slept with him . Would it have killed you if you didn’t go the party . Why didn’t you go with your boyfriend then. Instead of trying to justify, go and apologize and learn to respect your boyfriend’s opinion over exes.
Nothing might have happened but you messed up big time. You were very childish paaaa choosing to attend a dinner and sleeping over with a man who ha ls expressed interest in you once while you have a fiancee and he is aware. I mean, what are you trying to prove? That He is just your friend, you can be with him as much as you like and nothing can happened? You have caused an irreparable damage that may linger in your fiance mind for a long time even after you marry. You were just too childish
Hhhmmm. Your story shows that Caleb’s money and the comfort it can provide is conflicting you now. Plus, no woman has even accepted that they had sex with another man. Even if you catch her in the act, she will say they were only role playing or he tried but was too drunk and the penis brushed only her tigh.
I’m genuinely confused by all the comments here. It’s like you guys didn’t even read her story before commenting. She said that her boyfriend was okay with her attending the event. He only had issues when he discovered that she slept over at Caleb’s place. Frankly speaking, Esi’ s story makes more sense than Ofori’s story. It hardly sounded reasonable that Esi would insist on spending the night alone at Caleb’s place when she could easily have made alternative arrangements. And it’s obvious most of you don’t understand the way that the female mind works. If Esi wanted to be with Caleb, then she would be dating him. If she wanted to sleep with Caleb, she could easily have done so without Ofori ever finding out about it. Why would she need to spend the night at his place to have sex with him? Ofori doesn’t follow her around. There was absolutely no need for her to be honest with him if she didn’t want to. It’s just sad that he’s repaying her honesty and open communication with this rubbish. Babe Ofori is insecure, childish and unforgiving. You’re genuinely better off without him. If he wants to break up with you, then let him break up with you, he’s not the only man in the world. In fact, give Caleb the chance that he’s been waiting for. Ofori is just projecting his insecurities unto you. But seriously how do you guys even know that she’s lying? Why would she want to cheat on her boyfriend and then freely tell him that she spent the night at another guy’s place? Even Ofori admits that he only knew about her sleeping over/ planning to sleep over because she openly told him about her plans. Is Esi really that dumb?
I agree with you
There are significant differences between your narrative and Ofori’s and I tend to believe his version. Bottom line is, he didn’t want you to go for the event but you went anyway, giving him the impression that you are not fully committed to him. It’s painful, what you did, even from a distance. He seems to love you so much, and you’ve taken it for granted. Now, you can only wait to see if he can get over this enough to continue with you. Only time will tell.
Telling us u slept over not alone but with others so as to be believe ur story. But question is, did u sleep on the same bed & room in a group too.??…. U figure say u smart.
God, please make me blind and my bros. Cousins and nephews when they try to meet or talk to a woman like this. You’re. It even feeling any remorse. Your write up says a lot about you and the kind of person you are. You’re a liar and also a woman who don’t care about your boyfriend or z ex boyfriends feelings? How dare you disrespect him by attending such gathering? Will you die if you don’t go? You slept over at his place, why can’t he get you a Uber? Why didn’t you call or text your man what happened? Did you attempt all these? TBH, if he takes you back, he would have been a simp and a stupid man. You don’t deserve him at all. Have you ever seen a lying woman cry blood or blood in their mouth? You really disrespected Ofori and also push it to his face that Caleb’s money and comfort is what you need and want. So many red flags in your story, I won’t take you back if I was your boyfriend cos you painted a picture of you who truly are.
You will never know how sneaky a girl is. Someone called yoy childish. No, you’re not childish, you did what you did cos you wanted it period.
Esi I believe you.
It is as though some of you guys haven’t read her story well enough. From what she said she never dated Caleb and so he is not her ex. I do not believe she slept with Caleb because they had no such relationship in the past.
But I think you should have updated Ofori on the change in schedule of the event and what you intended to do while you were there. This would have helped his insecurities.