My husband was travelling so we decided to have a quick one before he leaves home. We have two kids. The first was out playing with his friends. He’s ten. The second one was sleeping in his room.
We felt safe doing it without locking the door because it was going to be quick and also our young soldiers were out of sight. A minute into the action, our door flung open and our first child walked in calling my name. What pains me the most is the fact that I was holding a table. If we were doing it in bed it would been fine because that’s the normal way.
Immediately he saw us, he shut the door and walked away. We both collapsed into the bed arguing who should go out first and talk to him. While arguing, my phone rang. It was a neighbour. She said, “I sent your son to call you for me but he came back to tell me you are busy. I’m wondering if he’s telling the truth because he was morose.”
We came out and had a round table discussion with him. We apologized to him and explained that we love each other so much that’s why we would do such a thing. He didn’t say a word or maintain eye contact.
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My husband is gone and we are left alone. Truth be told, I’ve become shy around him. He’s also not helping issues. He has lost his bubbly nature. He barely talks. He keeps to himself these days. Is that normal? How long before things come back to normal between us? Ama m’ayɛ basaa.
— Joyce
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You have to start by acting normal
and then approach him , Sit him down and ask him questions. You have to assure him things won’t change. Pour all your love on him but neglect the second one. I am not saying be clingy. Give him space but also try and be his best friend. If things doesn’t change let your husband do the job. Don’t let this event change how things were. Even if it does let it be for the best. Note better when engaging in the act please lock the door and also teach them how to knock as well.
Holding a table,…..hahaha
This is serious, you need to support him both psychologically and emotionally
He is confused. He doesn’t understand what he saw. His concern is for his mother. Tell him that when daddy comes back, you’ll punish him for what he did to you.
I honestly don’t know what to type here. I was having a discussion couple of weeks ago with a friend whose child saw her having a coochie time with a friend she just introduced to the child. Please adults, always look ur room door anytime you wanna have such moments. It is not good for kids that age to see such. You and ur husband need alot of talking to do. I expect your husband to tlk to him before he left for his trip. I strongly blv if you’ve not talked to him both it, it’s time for the sex talk. Just be honest. Use plain language that he can understand
It’s very normal, you are the one makes it abnormal hence the boy feel shy seeing their parents doing the doing. Don’t think that the boi is a small, 10years old boi knows Avery thing and needs not to be told. That’s why the boy told the woman who sent him that his mum is busy. Sex is an inborn trait so the boy know 100% what was going that’s why he shut the door quickly and run away, he feels u will beet him for busting in that’s why he’s withran. You have act normal and stop been remose Infront of ur son. See I was shock one day my 4year old daughter 3yreas old by then was asleep on the bed and I was doing it with my wife on that same bed. Could u believe my daughter upon waking up to see us Nacking turn to face the wall 🧱 , I thought she had gone back to sleep not knowing she just didn’t want to watch us so she face the wall but warrent sleeping it was after the show that we realized the girl isn’t asleep but facing the Wall 🧱
Time to start sex education for him. Tell him it is normal for two adult male and female to have sexual attraction for each other. It helps release stress, build partnerships and most importantly produce beautiful children like him. You should be proud to have shown your son what traditional family intimacy looks like, albert inadvertently. If he is not coming over in a week, take him to see a psychologists. Thumbs up to you and your husband for keeping the fire burning even after over 10 years of been together.