I was single for three years after my last girlfriend broke my heart. When her best friend eventually proposed to her, she accepted it but kept me on the side. I was there before her bestie proposed but when she accepted it, she made me the side guy. I stayed out of everything relationship for three years.

When I decided to start, it was hard to get a woman. Those who came close had their own agenda. Rebecca came. We were going up and down and visiting interesting places. In my mind, we were getting to know each other. Later when I proposed to her she told me, “Oh, you’re like a brother to me ooo. How can we change the tone this suddenly?”

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She asked for time and I gave it to her. She never returned to the topic again. To her, only a brother would do what I was doing for her.

Amanda came into the picture. She told me right from the start that she had a boyfriend. I remained her friend and listened to all the heartbreak stories she was going through with her boyfriend. I was hoping one day she would walk so I could have her. That never happened so I moved to another person, Adjoa. She was just in for the fun. She made demands every week and when I couldn’t provide, she got angry.

With time I realized she was not in for the longer haul so I dropped her. I took a break again. It was during the break that Alberta came through. She told me, “I’m not here to play games so if that’s what you want, kindly let me pass.”

We dated for six months and got married. You should be with Alberta for a day to know the kind of woman she is. She’s all in one. A package delivered to my door when I had not placed an order.

We’ve been married for just three months but now,  all my exes are coming back. Not only exes but other women are drawing close suggesting a relationship with me when I’m wearing a gleaming ring on my finger.

Rebecca told me, “I didn’t know you were looking for woman to marry oo. Why didn’t you tell me?”

Currently, she calls me every day and comments on every status I make. The last time we chatted, she asked me, “So when are you taking me out again?”

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As for Amanda, she went straight to the point, “Tell your wife someone was there before her so she can’t keep you to herself.”

Here I am thinking the reason we wear a ring is to drive other women away but that’s not the case in my experience. It looks like my ring is rather attracting other women into my life and these women are all nice in their ways and are ready to do anything to get my attention. Maybe it’s in my head. I want to know if it’s normal or you say I need spiritual intervention.    

— Bella 

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