My Two Girlfriends Clashed In My House And Now I’m Losing Both Of Them

I have two girlfriends, Matilda and Efia. I’m not a bad guy. I’m just keeping my options open. Matilda said no to me and later said yes. By the time she said yes, Efia was already in the picture. So give or take, I’ve dated both of them for the same period of time.

Matilda allows shuperu but Efia doesn’t. It’s not about shuperu. The whole thing is to get to know them better and decide on one. After a year of dating both, my heart chose Matilda so I had to find a nice way to let Efia go. Leaving a girl who hasn’t done anything to you is very hard so I was lurking in the dark, looking for an opportunity to let Efia go.

And then Matilda caught me. She read our messages and found out about Efia. I apologized and told her I would do everything possible to let Efia go. All she was waiting for was evidence that I’d stopped dating Efia.

I think there’s a woman in the house who gives Matilda a heads-up anytime Efia comes around. One afternoon, Efia came and she was cooking. We needed eggs so I stepped out to get them. In my absence, Matilda stormed the house and it turned into a huge fight.

I came to see the end of the fight but according to reports, Matilda was severely beaten. It was a flawless victory for Efia and the signs were clear on Matilda’s face; stolen upper lip and displaced wig.

Efia left the scene with a stern warning that I shouldn’t ever call her phone again. Matilda stayed but a few minutes later, I saw her picking some of the things she bought for me. She was also leaving.

She was the one I wanted so I had to do everything to stop her from leaving. I laid prostrate on the floor, held her legs and begged her to stay. “What do you want? Just name it and I’m ready to do it for you. You know I can’t leave without you. I was leaving her. I was going to leave her today but…”

She said, “I forgave you and even gave you time but you had the audacity to bring her here?” I won’t die because of you. She was cooking for you. Go on, keep her and leave me alone. It looks like it’s the food you want.”

It’s been over one month of begging and flooding Matilda’s life with apologies but this girl says no. I’m not ready to let go yet, but the confusing part is that Efia came back to apologize for what happened. She wants to come back thinking the incident has driven Matilda Away.

Currently, I don’t know for sure if I will ever get Matilda back into my life. Efia is there for the taking, Matilda is out of reach but she’s the one I want. While Efia keeps coming to beg me, I also go to Matilda to beg her to take me back. It’s like a begging triangle where I’m the hypotenuse. I don’t want to lose both of them.

Should I keep Efia and hope Matilda comes back? If she doesn’t come back, I will do life with Efia. If she comes back, I will let Efia go.

I’ve told Efia to give me time to think about it. I’m using that time to see if I will get Matilda back. I haven’t slept with Efia, so there’s nothing to lose. If I lose Matilda, there’s everything to lose. Please advise me without insult. I’ve had enough of insults already from both women.

—Tim