
Two years into our marriage, my husband told me I’ve never given him accolades for how well he performs in the bedroom, so he’s withdrawing his “services” until I start appreciating what I get. He said, “Talk to your married friends. Some of them don’t get a taste of it for weeks. Some beg for it before they’re given even a minute of show, but you get it whenever you want without showing appreciation.”
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He wants me to tell him he performs like a beast.
At first, it sounded like a joke, but then I realized we’d gone a week without intimacy, then two weeks, and then three. Throughout our marriage, I’ve never been the one to initiate—he always was. When I realized the situation was getting out of hand, I approached him. He told me bluntly, “Until you bow to the king and sing his praises, there will be no meal for you tonight or any other night.”
“Oh, so you were serious when you said that?” I asked him. I did what he wanted—I sang his praises and blew his trumpet. He responded, “Now let me sleep. I’ll think about whether I want to do it.”
He slept without fulfilling his promise. I struggled all night, unable to sleep. Around dawn, just as I was dozing off, he got up and tried to initiate. I told him to leave me alone since I hadn’t slept all night. I chose sleep over him, and again, he got angry.
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I haven’t approached him since because, honestly, why should I? Everyone can keep their desires to themselves. I don’t know how long we’ll go without intimacy, but does it make sense for my husband to demand praise and worship before performing what I see as his God-given role as the man of the house? I mean, who does that?
—Fidelia
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Someone is definitely singing his “praises” somewhere and it’s getting into his head. You can avoid him all you want but he’s definitely getting it from where his praises are sung 😂😂
U be there and don’t do want will bring peace and harmony to your marriage. We take a lot of things for granted in marriage. Before u realized this has turn to something unresolvable. God help us.
That man self i think he love sex me av see that type is my own daddy use to do it to my mummy so nwee ndidi
If you want your marriage to work then you have to bend . He has a praise kink so if you praising him will make your satisfaction top notch then my sister do it. Little things like this that sinks the ship.
Do you even know hus love language?
For all you know, he’s subtly telling you that his love language is words of affirmation
I always says in marriage there is nothing like pride especially on the side of the woman. Men are like babies, Boss a man like you are bossing a child little things that you think are nothing and get their maximum cooperation and you will be his queen. If he want praises sing it and his head will swell and he will kill himself for you just women also like complements.
Small ngyigyi ho nti,you are going to sink your marriage? Carry on.
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Me that my husband has traveled has been singing his praises ,you that is beside it doesn’t want, madam gyigyi ho wai,I feel proud when I called for sex haha
Afi 😂🤣🤣🤣