He called me and told me it was his friend who wanted to talk to me—Fii and Albert. Fii called me because Albert was too scared to do it himself.
When I first got to know them, anytime we met, it was Fii who handled the conversations. Albert didn’t say much. Even when he wanted me to be his girlfriend, it was Fii who did the talking for him. I was disappointed that Albert had to outsource everything to Fii, but in the end, I accepted his proposal, and we started dating. The truth is, I liked Fii.
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While dating Albert, anytime we had an issue, he reported it to Fii, and Fii would come to settle it for us. One day, we had a fight. Albert told me it was over, and I told him to leave and never come back. As usual, Fii stepped in to resolve the issue for us. This time, it took a long time—about a month—to resolve the problem.
During that period, I slept with Fii. It happened twice before Albert and I decided to bury the hatchet and get back together.
A few months later, Fii travelled abroad. A year after that, Albert and I got married. We’ve been married for six years now and have two children. Fii has been away all these years. I don’t talk to him because we lost contact. My husband, however, still talks to him occasionally.
Out of nowhere, my husband asked me, “Did you ever sleep with Fii while we were together?”
The question took me by surprise, so I hesitated before asking, “Why are you asking this? Where is this coming from?” He replied, “You did. Thanks for confirming.”
I shouted, “I didn’t confirm anything! I’m asking why you’re asking me this!”
He didn’t say anything else. He left the room and came back later. I sat him down and told him we needed to talk about it. He bluntly told me he was never going to bring it up again because he got the answer from my reaction and the question I asked him.
He’s still my husband. He hasn’t changed much since that day. He acts normal and fulfils his role as expected. But it bothers me. It triggers my conscience and makes me restless. If he knows the truth and is still acting this way, then what’s the point?
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Sometimes, I just want to confess to him so we can talk about it, but I feel the truth is sometimes overrated. I’d rather leave things as they are and see what happens as we go along.
What do you think? Should I talk about it, or should I let whatever will be, be?
—Aboagyewaa
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Talk to him about it because may be his friend(FII) have already told him so, He just wanted to know. Just feel free and tell him so that you too will have peace of mind rather always thinking.
Talk about it. Don’t run from the truth. Solve the problems now before it ruins everything you worked hard for.
Go and ask Fiiiii
Aboagyewaa, listen to me, NEVER bring this up again and don’t talk to him about it. This is a secret you should take to your grave. Even if Fii has told him anything, deny, deny, deny! Your husband obviously doesn’t want to know any more than he knows, so shut up. He’s a clever man, he has figured it out, but he doesn’t want to act on it. He wants to keep his marriage, so please leave it at that. Don’t force him to do what he doesn’t want to do.