When we started the act, she asked if I had a condom. I shook my head. She told me she wasn’t going to do it until I got myself one. From my place to town was too far so I pleaded with her. It was our first time. Looking at how I’d suffered before getting her to say yes, I didn’t want to leave things to chance. It took me several minutes of pleading but she finally accepted to do it, with a caveat; “I’m not safe so make sure you don’t release in me.”
I nodded my head and promised never to let things get that far. Then the action started. To be honest, I got carried away at some point. I even forgot the warning she gave me when I reached the sweet point. I don’t remember what happened, by the time I realized, everything had come to pass and I was on top panting. She screamed, “You let it in?”
She pushed me off her and rushed to the bathroom. She came out fuming with anger, “Why did you do that? Do you want to get me pregnant? I told you before everything and you accepted so why did you let it in?”
She even attempted to hit me but I swerved. I told her, “This is not a life and death issue so why are you behaving like that? I will get you a drug and that’s all.”
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Hearing of the drug got her infuriated so she dressed up and left. It’s a new relationship. We are only four months old but this girl says it’s over. I thought she was acting out of anger and would come back to normal once the anger dissipated. No, she meant it. She doesn’t want to see my face. She has blocked my number and has warned that the next time I get close, he will make area guys attack me.
What’s so bad about mistakenly releasing inside? There are drugs to take care of that so I don’t understand the bitterness, even to the extent of breaking up. Or there’s more I don’t know. Please, ladies, educate me because I feel she’s simply overreacting or she just doesn’t want the relationship again and is using this as an excuse.
—Kweku
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Your lack of remorse reveals the kind of person you are! Selfish and disrespectful. Aside STDs, the risk of pregnancy is higher, isn’t it.? You agreed to hold it and failed. Yet you feel vindicated to ask such reckless questions? God punish you!
Your(NAB) abusive comment makes u an epitome and a standard sort of the person u labeled him as.Must y always resort to insults when people come to seek your advice on the way forward to correcting their shortcomings?.Who does that as a matured and enlightened adult?
Am soo much in love with this comment..
First of all u broke her trust, secondly after pills are not always good. It can affect a woman’s ability to conceive. U downplayed her anger like it was thing to be serious about. It’s her body and she gave it to u and u were careless with it. Go back and apologize and let her know u understand her anger and promise to be more careful next time.
First of all u broke her trust, secondly after pills are not always good. It can affect a woman’s ability to conceive. U downplayed her anger like it was nothing to be serious about. It’s her body and she gave it to u and u were careless with it. Go back and apologize and let her know u understand her anger and promise to be more careful next time.
Bro, you broke the Brother Code.
Firstly, she compromised her unsafe period for you.
Secondly, she placed her safety from STDs on the line.
Before you even began the act, you promised her not to.
You had your own intention, just to have s*x, and so you forgot to take into consideration the outcome of it whether Good or bad.
You made your selfishness lead you. You didn’t respect her dignity and choice. You never thought of her.
She was right to end things that way.
There is no way you can justify your action of not redrawing by mere fact that you forgot.
You even propose that she can use contraceptive. You had your own agenda bro. Your target was just to knack.
Don’t let your d*ck do the thinking, it will lead you somewhere you don’t want.
What kind of man in this modern age cannot keep at least 3 pieces of condom in a drawer close to his bed always? Are you willing to impregnated a random girl you just got to know or who accepted your proposal four months ago? Are you a boy or man? What is after pills? Did you tell her you will come and give her after pill or you will withdraw? You broke her trust big time. She ought to have hit you hard before leaving you.