My friend slept with my husband and she’s bragging about it just because I dared to be happy about my marriage. We were a group of three. It’s Nancy who decided to go out of her way to do that with my husband. It happened while we were dating.
I didn’t know about it and didn’t even suspect something of that sort had happened between them until we got married and I started posting my wedding pictures and videos. According to Nancy, posting about my wedding was noise and unnecessary drama. She told other friends, “Is she the only one who’s married? Aware papa bɛn that she won’t let our ears rest?”
A friend recorded her and sent the recording to me, warning me to stay away from Nancy. In the recording, Nancy bragged, “This man that we’ve all used that she’s showing off as if she married a prince from heaven.” One girl warned her to be watchful of her words but she retorted, “Let me say it. It’s this kind of nhwiwhɛnim that will make me go and eat him again. I can have him again, trust me.”
I wasn’t angry after listening to the audio. I didn’t even think of asking my husband about it. It’s in the past. It happened when we were not married so I won’t let it disturb my marriage. The fact that she could harbour such hatred about my marriage and still call herself my friend is what baffles me.
I’ve decided to cut her off. Maybe she’s bitter I’m married and she’s not. If that’s the case then I pray God should give her a husband too so she can find rest in her own skin. What’s important to me now is how to nurture this marriage and make it everything I want it to be.
I didn’t marry an angel. I married just a man, a man with all his mistakes and weaknesses. I expect him to falter along the way just as I’ll falter so what Nancy says doesn’t change anything. He takes good care of me and he chose me after sleeping with her. It only means I’m the one he wants. The dogs can bark but the rock won’t shake. This marriage will succeed in Jesus name and she can never come close to us again.
— Abayaa
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That’s all. She is not married because she is bitter. You can’t expect to cheat or do evil to a friend and succeed.
Hello Abayaa, I am glad the stand you have chosen to take. But I will encourage you to have a conversation with your husband with the aim of creating systems to prevent such from happening again. This is not to judge him in anyway but to help as you both forge ahead. The Good Lord had to send cherubim’s to guard the garden of Eden for the good of mankind. May God bless you and enjoy your marriage
That is all. It is skin pain. Your style was what turned your husband’s head. The styles Nancy gave your husband were lame and weak. Yours had pure fire 🔥, that is why he chose you. Before discussing the bad words Nancy is going round saying about your marriage, give your husband 3× your usual style. Then tell him to beware of Nancy who is out to muddy the clear waters in your marriage. And reverse, your prayer wishing that Nancy gets a husband too. Tonight, pray that Nancy keeps getting heart breaks and never marry until she is 50 years. Put a pledge of 1000 ghs on it and redeem it when she calls you for her fifth birthday bash. Wicked people need to be taught lessons. So that the fear of God will fall upon this generation again.
I’m with Reggie on this one. Do have a conversation with your husband, but do so with an open mind. Nancy may very well be telling lies and approaching your husband with an accusation he may be innocent of may backfire. But do have the conversation so you can put it behind you, firmly.