My boyfriend’s wife called me one night and the first question she asked me was “What’s going on?”

I didn’t know who was speaking so I asked, “Who’s this?” Her answer was, “I’m Aboagye’s wife. I didn’t call to attack you or anything but I’m asking what’s the problem between you and my husband? What’s going on?”

According to her, she had been reading our messages. She knows we’ve been going out for the past one year but she hadn’t made any fuss about it because she didn’t care. Her only problem was, anytime her husband comes home with an attitude and she goes through his phone, she realizes there was a fight between us. She called that evening because her husband had been giving her attitude for over a week.

I was so embarrassed I didn’t know what to say. Yes, we had been fighting. He was fighting me because of suspicion of cheating. I wasn’t cheating. The guy was just a friend but he wouldn’t understand so I told him to do his worst. I couldn’t tell his wife what was going on but in the end what she said was, “Whatever the issue between you two, resolve it because I want peace here.”

I was scared. Confused. I felt naked but there was nothing to cover up. I wasn’t talking to Aboagye but I called him immediately, “Your wife just called me. How did she get my number? How could you leave your phone for her to read our messages for a year? It’s even good that I know this. It’s over.”

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His wife was there so he couldn’t say much. We texted and he said he was sorry. Days later his wife called again, “Sister, don’t leave him ooo. He’s yours now. I only called because he wasn’t stable and it was affecting the kids. He’s yours. Treat him well.”

“Ah, what’s going on?”

When I met Aboagye, he told me their marriage was over and that they’ll finalize the divorce so he could marry me.

I don’t want to marry him. Not under this circumstance but I can’t also leave him now because he’s everything to me. I want to finish my national service, get a job and finally leave but looking at what’s happening I have to run now.

He says he won’t let me go. He comes around often, threatening to deal with any guy who comes near me. Everything I own, he bought it. If I try anything silly and he starts collecting his things, I will sleep outside naked.

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I’m in a mess I know but what’s the way forward for me? I’ve blocked his wife. When I see a strange call I don’t pick up because it could be her. I want out of this but it looks like there’s no easy way out. What should I do?

—Adobea

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