I saw my boyfriend’s joystick for the first time today and it doesn’t look normal to me. We’ve been dating for over a year now and we are not having shuperu until we are married. Because of this, we try as much as possible to stay away from situations that would entice us to do it. I’m a virgin and he’s a virgin too.

I travelled with him to his cousin’s wedding out of town and we had to share the same room. He was bathing while I was out waiting for him. The bathroom suddenly flung open and there he was, naked and in full glory. I caught a glimpse of his joystick and I was amazed at the way it looks like.

It’s bent in the middle just the way the hook we use to catch fish looks like. You can compare it to a sickle tool and you wouldn’t be wrong. I’ve been thinking about it since I saw it. I’ve seen joysticks before—a lot of them. I didn’t see it while doing shuperu because I haven’t done some before.

I’ve seen it in pictures and I’ve seen kids roaming free with their dangling things. Never have I seen anything like my boyfriend’s. The shape and thickness. I feel it can’t work. Maybe it’s the reason he’s a virgin at this age.

I’ve started to get worried. I don’t want to get married and also get surprised. So I’m here asking, is it normal? The bend and the radius. How is he going to use it when the time comes? Isn’t it supposed to be straight and forward-looking? Why is his different from the normal ones?

—Fidelia

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