Two months after chatting on the phone, we had an opportunity to meet. I was nervous, thinking of what I was going to say to make her my girlfriend. I’m not good with women. In all my twenty-eight-years life, I’ve dated two women. She is going to be my third.
The night was fine and throughout the conversation, I was looking for an opportunity to tell her I loved her. She had a phone call and started going through her bag scrambling to get hold of the phone. She tilted her bag a little and a dildo fell on the table, pushing one of the glasses down and spilling what was inside.
She screamed, “Oh shit!” drawing the attention of patrons sitting next to us. Some of them covered their mouth and laughed. Others looked away, trying to swallow their laughter. She picked it up and threw it into her bag. She apologised but from then on, it turned awkward. She couldn’t look at my face and I couldn’t say much.
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When she got home, she sent a message to apologize for the spectacle she created. I told her it was alright and assured her what happened didn’t change anything. I didn’t propose that night and don’t intend to propose again because I feel I can’t handle her when it comes to that. I saw the size of what fell. It’s like twice my size. I’m already developing an inferiority complex when it comes to her. That aside, I feel she’s more exposed than I ever could and this might affect our relationship in the long run should it happen.
Is that a genuine fear, or are these things (toys) normal these days and don’t affect anything? Please advise.
— Enoch
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Assumptions will get you no where. Like you said, you won’t propose to her so why bother yourself with these questions?. Size means nothing. Might means everything. The fact that she has a big dildo deos not mean she is experienced . She might have a little experience or over experience. You may never know till you give it a try. These toys don’t affect anything. It’s human contact that women crave apart from that it can’t get you off the way a human being deos. So please don’t be intimidated. If the dildo is twice your size then it means you are good.
This Maame Efua is lying. Size matters a lot to women which is why she picked a big dildo, not a small one that she can easily carry in her bag
Plus, you have the right and genuine reason not to propose. Women craze for men when only they are far away. Once you marry this kind of woman, she will always satisfy herself with the dildo leaving you to be begging her for intimacy.
Again, it is about the morals. A woman who doesn’t see anything wrong with having sex with a toy can sleep with multiple men to get the same satisfaction whenever you’re not available.
do not propose.
Enoch, if that’s a red flag 🚩 for you and you’re not ohk, please let go.
I do not agree with children in adult body.
If she is single and not sleeping with multiple men but using a dildo, why would she decide to do multiple men when married? When she can still get that same satisfaction from the dildo?
Seriously these toys are becoming part of some couples marriage lately. There are couples who together use these items on each other. It’s each one and their preference but a dildo in her possessions doesn’t necessarily Mena she has loose morals and would sleep around. What of those who don’t own a single dildo yet still sleep around anyhow? Did the dildo contribute to that?
Mr man, don’t make assumptions. find out for yourself.
Dildos are becoming part of people marriage and still causing problems.
i understand your point anyways. but you also made assumptions about if she is single, what if she is not single ? so we are all all assuming somehing in our submissions
Bro, assumptions they say, is the mother of all Fuckups. I think you need to think deep and also talk to her about how you feel. I read a lady mentioned size don’t matter, she shouldn’t speak for ladies cos to a lot of ladies, size matters a lot. Also, to some guys, dildo or any form of sexual toy that gives a woman joy and stimulation is a red flag. Yes, a lot of women, married couple just added dildo and other toys to their sex lives(I don’t have any problem with that) A lot of ladies also keep those toys simply bcos they can’t be satisfied by men and also crave a lot of sex. Keeping a toy that’s double the size of ur thing, will make most men feel some type of way. If you feel you are gonna be thinking about it, do not propose.
Size does matter to women a lot so if anyone says otherwise it’s false. Also most dildo’s comes with a vibrator hence the pleasure it gives cannot be given by any man or woman. You cannot satisfy a woman who is addicted to dildos. I say addicted because it is only when you get to that point that you carry it everywhere you go. Take this from someone who has had a first hand experience with sex toys it takes a lot of hard work and time to get yourself back to normal again. And even with that you need to really discipline yourself to tame the cravings for it. So save yourself the stress of feeling inadequate should you ever consider being with her. Remember no dick vibrates therefore no man can win against a toy. And it’s painful for a human to be compared to a toy. Peace ✌️
This woman is exposed unlike you.
U need someone who is calm. However, u can convince her to be open to you, there might be a reason for this dildo.
If you can help go on else run for ur life