I met a very beautiful girl in 2022. I named her Goddess because of her beauty. Every curve, every contour, every inch of her body drove me wild. Even when she told me her name, I insisted on calling her Goddess and she liked it so it became her pet name. As I got closer to her, my desire for her grew bigger. She drew stares wherever we walked and that made me feel that I had made the right choice in a woman, for once. Men would walk past us, then turn around and look behind us. I knew they were going to do it so sometimes I turned back and looked at them looking at us. Those were the days I felt on the moon and believed the world was right.
I was in university when she said yes to me. She was in secondary school but her maturity sometimes made me feel we were at the same age. She never hid anything from me. She opened up to me about her past. She left no skeleton uncovered. I knew everything about her; the good, the bad, and the ugly. Some of the things she revealed about herself were shocking but I never judged her. It rather made me love her more. I saw her openness as a sign of change. I believed she was no longer the person who did all those terrible things she told me about.
As our relationship grew, she paid me a visit on campus. We were in my hostel when she told me, “There is something that has been weighing on my mind these past few days. I don’t know how to tell you but keeping it from you has been eating me up.” “You know you can tell me anything,” I urged her, “I have never judged you.” For the first time since I met her, she seemed to find it difficult to express herself. I patiently watched her as she fumbled for words. When she finally spoke she said, “I am pregnant. It is my ex’s baby. It happened before I started dating you. He doesn’t know about it and I don’t want him to find out. Please, I need your help to deal with it.”
I asked her, “What do you mean your ex doesn’t know about the baby?” She then explained that when she first found out about the pregnancy, her ex denied the pregnancy and then took her to the hospital to get rid of it. A month after the deed was done, she still experienced pregnancy symptoms. She also didn’t get her period so she took another pregnancy test and it turned out that she was still pregnant. “The way things are going, I am scared to try again. Maybe it is destined to live so I want to keep it and deal with the repercussions of being a teen mum and a school dropout.” She concluded.
It was difficult for me to hear that my girlfriend was carrying another man’s baby. Nonetheless, I felt pity for her. I felt pity for the position she had found herself in. I was determined to stand by her and support her however she needed me to. I told her, “Keep the baby, and I promise you won’t have to do it alone. I am here for you, through thick and thin.” She was thankful for my support and she spent the night with me that day. We had an intimacy that night and it was fireworks. I remember the promises she made while she moaned my name and told me to hit it faster.
After our marathon session, she put her head on my chest and slept like a well-fed baby. I had a deep conversation with myself and decided to father another man’s child. No one knew the backstory surrounding the pregnancy so they would not know that I am not the father of the child. She stayed with me for two weeks and the entire time she was there I couldn’t fully concentrate on my lectures. Returning from class to meet her waiting for me was always a pleasant experience.
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When she finally left my place, she travelled to her village to live with her aunt. The long distance wasn’t a problem for us at all. Goddess made it a point to pay me surprise visits whenever she got the chance. And I remember how much I really enjoyed them. By and by, the ninth month of the pregnancy arrived and she delivered a very beautiful child. The baby looked like her ex but that did not put me off. What came as a surprise to me was Goddess’ sudden change in behaviour after she had the baby. She wouldn’t return my calls. Her number was always on call waiting.
This kept going on for a while so I decided to take a step back and observe what was really happening. The things I found out hurt me so badly that I cursed the day I met her. She was posting videos of herself flirting with men in their cars. I didn’t say anything to her when I saw this. The message was clear. All I did was gather the pieces of my broken heart and do my best to move on.
Should I Choose My Wife And Her Son Over My Daughter?–Beads Media
I have had a few relationships since I met her but my heart is like a dead car battery. I don’t feel anything for the girls who have come my way. But that is not my problem. The problem now is that Goddess wants to come back. She didn’t find whatever she went looking for so she wants to come back to the fool who loved her unconditionally. I don’t love her anymore but I have decided to take her back so that I can pay her back in her own coin. I believe she deserves everything bad that I have in store for her. There are things she did to me that I am too embarrassed to say here.
My plan, however, is to get her pregnant, pretend I am going to marry her, and then leave her when she gives birth. I want her to be a born two so that no man will want to marry her. Tell me, am I on the right path?
–Gad
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I understand your deep hurt. However, getting her pregnant and dumping her is also abandoning your child. Not a good legacy for that innocent child.
Move on if you can’t forgive her.
I agree with you. The child will be the bigger victim. And you definitely don’t want to leave your child. It definitely isn’t good in any sense of the word
I agree with you. The child will be the bigger victim. And you definitely don’t want to leave your child. It definitely isn’t good in any sense of the word
I feel your pain reading your story, but again, your thoughts should not be carried out.
You decided to love a lady who’s beautiful, oozes all the sexual appeal, with really dark past and again pregnant for her ex. And you think you’re immuned to heartbreak?
The first thing is understand that whatever happens, you’re now part of her life. Like she shared her dark past with you, she’ll do that with a new lover to gain his trust. That’s how beautiful, unemployed and often naive ladies behave.
Secondly, you wouldn’t want to carry out your plan because the repercussions of that would be staring at you for a lifetime. What if you became an influential person and you’re associated with someone you consider unfaithful with 4 kids with different fathers, are you even ready for the drama should she come throwing tantrums on social media and the likes?
Lastly, even if you dont love her, I’ll earnestly advice that you stay away from her without adding to her worries. Avoid that decision to early grave, because should she messes herself up which is likely imminent, you’ll bear the cost of looking after not only your child, but your child’s siblings. But if you still find her beautiful, work really hard on making money and to retain her. Beautiful girls have enormous needs you and you know.
All I can say to you is from Romans 12:21(be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good). You do not need to take her back if you don’t love her anymore, but do not treat her in a way you would not want you or a loved one to be treated
That is how humans are, we sometimes do not appreciate what we have until we loose them. Paying her back with that option will just be a harm to your offspring. Leave her to deal with her own mess. @ the right time the right person will pop up and win your heart.
Guy it’s of no need to do that. if you love her keep her and make her yours forever but if its not please let her go in peace not in pieces!
Two wrongs don’t make a right dear…If you don’t want her, then let her go/know,,,let God be your Judge