We are getting married in January. Plans are far advanced and we are about to start counseling. I started hearing rumours about her having an affair with a half-cast who lives in her area. At first, I threw it off as hearsay until the rumours got louder and bolder.

I checked her phone and saw a chat between him and a guy whose profile picture fits the description of the half-cast guy. I couldn’t read their conversations because she was close by. Later in the evening when I had the chance to read it, she had deleted all the messages.

I asked her about the rumor and she denied ever knowing anyone who was a half-cast. I told her about the messages I saw and asked why she deleted them. She asked, “So you heard rumours and you started going through my phone because of it?”

It turned into an argument and she later walked out. I monitored her movement and got concrete evidence that indeed she was seeing this half-cast guy. When I showed her the evidence she told me,. “I blame you. I didn’t intend to do anything with him but you pushed me into it.”

I was like, “How? How did I push you?”

She told me when I started asking questions, I made her feel like she had already done it when in reality she hadn’t done anything so she decided to do it. The most annoying part of the whole thing is that she is not ready to apologize. She said, “I won’t apologize because you made me do it. I’m not sorry for doing what you expected me to do.”

I threatened to call off the wedding and she said, “Do it. Do I care? Who loses?”

Obviously, she doesn’t love me again and I’m not going to fight for her love. Women are many. Good women fall like manner if only you’re willing to look deeper. I won’t waste my time on her but I want to pay her back. She hurt me so bad and I want to pay her back.

I will pretend I’m cool. I will apologize to her and settle our differences for the wedding to go on but on the wedding day, I won’t show up. I will make sure to go somewhere with another woman and send her pictures on the supposed wedding day.

We’ve dated for five years only for her to turn her back on me because of that broni pɛtɛ. I will waste my money on her but in the end, she would be the one to suffer the humiliation. A woman does not live in this world to do this to her man. I’m hurt. I need an escape and this could be the only escape for me.

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