I’ve been chasing her for the past four months. She keeps telling me no yet sticks around because according to her, she likes me and doesn’t want to lose me. I asked why she wouldn’t say yes to me and she said, “I have no reason except that I feel it won’t work.”
I love her and I know from deep within my heart that it will work if she’s committed as I am. One night she called me. It was around 9 p.m. She asked if I was in the house alone and I said yes. She came around. She said she needed someone to talk to because she was lonely.
We talked for hours and by the time we realized, both of us were lying naked in my bed. She spent the night with me. All night I couldn’t sleep. I couldn’t believe I had her in my bed. I stayed awake and watched her sleeping. I knew once we’d had sex, she was mine.
She left my place the next day and stopped picking up my calls. days later, I saw her. We talked. I asked why she was avoiding me and she told me, “I’m not avoiding you but I’m not obliged to talk to you every day. We are just friends and friends don’t talk every day.”
“But I thought our status changed the night we had shuperu.”
“Oh, that one? It’s just shuperu. I wanted it and you wanted it too so no hard feelings.”
She called again not too long ago. She wants to come around to see me. I asked what she wanted from me and she said, “I need to talk to someone but when I come and you feel like having shuperu, we can do it.”
She did it once and she snubbed me afterwards. She wants to do it again. Why would a lady do that to someone who loves her genuinely? Does she love me too but playing hard to get or she simply doesn’t see me as relationship material?
I’m baffled by her behaviour. Is it normal?
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It’s not normal. She is using you. Just cut her off.
When we tell today’s generation that sex is for married people, they don’t understand.
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She wants to be with you but she is scared (insecure).
She stated from the beginning the moment u made ur intentions know to her and she is using that as bait to satisfy her sexual needs whenever she wants it and becos u are available for it whenever she needs it she will continue and wont stop. My dear if u want your peace of mind and want to live long end whatever feelings u have for her and concentrate on your life and your aim in life and create some boundaries between u and her and wait and look for the one who genuinely wants and loves you rather being used her . A word to the wise is enough
She stated from the beginning the moment u made ur intentions know to her and she is using that as bait to satisfy her sexual needs whenever she wants it and becos u are available for it whenever she needs it she will continue and wont stop. My dear if u want your peace of mind and want to live long end whatever feelings u have for her and concentrate on your life and your aim in life and create some boundaries between u and her and wait and look for the one who genuinely wants and loves you rather being used her . A word to the wise is enough