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I attended a funeral in my hometown. I was supposed to return on a later date but for some reason and for the fact that my husband was alone, I decided to leave earlier than intended.
I didn’t tell him I was coming back. It was supposed to be a surprise to him but it ended up being my own surprise. He was with another woman in our matrimonial bed. They were busy making love while slow music was playing loudly.
I was frozen. Like a deer caught in a headlight. I stood there watching them in utter shock until he changed style and saw me standing there. He quickly jumped up and started looking for his dress. I sauntered out of the room, sad, shocked, dejected, less of a wife than I was before I saw them.
I stayed in the backyard of the house for almost an hour, trying to process what I’d seen. It was like a lucid dream, dreaming inside a dream but don’t know which of the dream is inside the other. Through it all, I didn’t lose my calm or composure. Things like this can break you to a level where you can’t have the strength to react or fight.
When I went back in, the lady had vanished. My husband knelt in supplication immediately I entered. I signalled him to get up. I went to freshen up and later headed to the kitchen to prepare something for dinner. He kept following me around, trying to apologize. I didn’t utter a word.
I served dinner. He sat there without eating, his eyes filled with regret, whilst I finished my food and went to bed. Some broken hearts attack your heart and leave your appetite alone. That was the kind I suffered. I tried to shut out the pain but his piercing whispers of apology throughout the night wouldn’t let me. I still didn’t utter a word.
This is a man I trusted so much. He looks so innocent you’ll mistake him for a saint. They say every man cheats but do they do it on their matrimonial bed while their wives are mourning at a funeral?
He Got Me Pregnant And Also Got His Ex Pregnant
It’s been 4 days and I still haven’t said anything about the incident. I go about my duties as a wife, go through the emotions whilst he keeps shaking whenever he sees me. It’s amazing how a sin can make a man so small yet they keep doing it. The head is now going around the house headless but all I have is my silence.
— Kathy
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Asemoo . Take all the time you need. Communication the say is the key to build a lasting relationship. You avoiding it won’t make things better .You have to face the problem head on. But you have done well paaoo being able to sleep on that bed de3 anka 3y3 mea meny3. It’s well.
Forgiveness is possible
First Pray to God to help you deal with the pain that will bring you in alignment to his will
Secondly Ask God to help you forgive your husband
Forgiveness will relief you, try it.
It doesn’t make you a fool, it makes you wiser and stronger.
Thirdly hold his hands to pray asking God to forgive him and plead the blood 🩸 of Jesus to cleans your matrimonial home from every sin,iniquity and transgression.
I believe it will please God.
You need some time alone to process and heal your heart. Denial only prolonges your hurt. It is your reality. Work it out of your system and then and only then ask yourself if you can forgive him and put this behind you. Nobody can judge you either way.
Hmm this is hard. If you can forgive him do so and move on with your marriage, if you you can’t don’t be persuaded to do so no matter what, because doubts will never allow you enjoy your marriage with him again. Pray for strength from God to help in healing your heart, but please do not hold his hands to pray for forgiveness for a sin he committed alone. He didn’t hold your hands when making love to another woman on your matrimonial bed. He single handedly desecrated your home and he should sanctify it if he can. Most men cheat not all men, but those who brings it into the matrimony of their homes I believe are shameless and have no respect for their marriages and their wives.
You honestly don’t need to hold hands with him to pray for forgiveness. Reasons, he didn’t commit the sin with you, he didn’t seek your consent and he didn’t think bout how you’ll feel if you find out. If you can forgive him, please do so and address the issue but keeping mute for days wont help the situation.