I have a wonderful husband. He’s a great father to our children and I love him.
Everything was fine until recently when I met my Boss for the first time. I recently started working in my new office so I never met the Boss personally. From the day he saw me, he took a special interest in me. He knows I’m married and he is okay with that.
He treats me like a woman and caters for all my bills. He pays for the things I don’t even know I need. I love being with him. He makes me feel very safe and with him, I think the world can go away for all I care.
He’s not married and he is willing, in his own words, to “be here” for me.
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We are yet to have shuperu but he kissed me last night before we departed from each other and I’ve been yearning for his kiss all day. Not only his kiss but I’ve started wondering what it would be like to lay in bed with him and surrender to his desires.
I tell him how much it hurts doing this to my husband and he tells me, “Don’t worry. Everything will be fine. What he doesn’t know can’t hurt him.”
He has a way of getting to me emotionally. It’s only my husband who has been able to get to me the way my boss has and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband too.
My husband knows him as my Boss and nothing else. He will surely break down and break up with me if he finds out so I’ve learned not to leave no traces. It’s kind of a confusing state I’m in now. Confused because my husband has to hurt me or treat me badly to be able to fall for someone else but in this case, everything is fine between us but I still yearn for someone new.
I need my job badly so I don’t want to do anything to hurt my boss. This is the only job I’ve had that pays beyond my imagination. I can’t afford to lose it. That aside, I want my boss and need my husband. I wish there was a way the two can work at the same time.
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The seriousness of the issues currently is, since I met my boss, shuperu with my husband is like a duty for me. I avail myself to him but I don’t feel anything. It’s like the stream and the stone story. What can the stream do to the stone? Nothing. He’s busy doing it and I’m there thinking about my boss. I need help, I know. That’s why I’m here.
—Stacey
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My dear you are trading your husband just for a pound of the flesh. Becareful. The forbidden fruit is the sweetest but wasn’t it the same fruit that caused Adam and Eve to be driven out of the garden of Eden. THE SAME WILL BE DONE TO YOU, YOUR HUSBAND WILL FORGIVE YOU BUT HE WILL DIVORCE YOU. YOU NEED YOUR HUSBAND AND WANT YOUR BOSS. MY DEAR YOU CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT YOUR NEEDS BUT YOUR WANT YOU CAN FORGO THEM NEANING THEY ARE NOT NECESSARY. YOUR BOSS IS NOT IMPORTANT. YOUR HUSBAND IS IMPORTANT BECAUSE YOU NEED HIM . MY DEAR IF A MAN WANTS TO DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE THEY TELL YOU WHAT HE DOESN’T KNOW WON’T HURT. MY DEAR BE WISE AND STAY CLEAR OF HIM. HE JUST WANTS YOU FOR YOUR BODY WHEN HE IS DONE HE WILL THROW YOU AWAY LIKE A RUG.HE IS LURRING YOU WITH GIFTS SINCE YOU ARE WEAK MENTALLY AND VAIN HE WILL USE ALL THESE JUST TO MAKE YOU FEEL HIGH AND MIGHTY LATER AFTER GETTING WHAT HE WANTS HE WILL LEAVE YOU DRY AND PULL YOU DOWN. GET UP FROM YOUR SLEEP AND OPEN YOUR EYES. DONT FORGET TO SPEAK TO YOUR HUSBAND ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL. DONT FORGET TO PRAY 👍 LUCK.
Anyone who knows you’re married and still wants to have you is evil, especially when your spouse hasn’t wronged you. Marriage doesn’t make you immune to desiring other people. So you can have feelings for someone else even though you’re married, but it doesnt mean you should fuel the fire. Just like wild infatuations, you’ll wake up out of it one day. If you mess up, the regret will be massive when you fall out of this infatuation. And oh, you cannot cover your tracts forever. If you don’t stop, you’ll have sex with your boss and you will be caught one day. You can’t trade your need (your husband) for your want (your boss). A word to the wise…..
Fela Kuti sang, “when trouble sleep Yanga go bite hin tail, wetin ede want? Palaver ede want, and Palaver ego get.”
They say when you use one eye to look inside two bottles you loose both.
I’m amazed by your weakness.
A word to a wise…….
Adwaman baaaa
You are rather chasing the wind 💨. Self-control is the basic understanding of a peaceful and sound mindset. *The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom*. My dear, you are on the edge, or let’s say it’s a defining moment to choose between good and bad. Any decision you choose today will go a long way to determining the next chapter of your life. Ponder over these,
1. How are you going to live with your husband after Shuperu with your boss?
2. If your husband finds out and divorces you in the process, how will you feel?
3. How are you sure your boss will stick with you to the end?
4. Put yourself in your husband’s shoes, imagine this same issue a vice-versa, and you find out eventually, would forgive and continue with the relationship?
5. Now let’s come to the kids, do you think your children will forgive you when they find out? Go the extra mile and think about how this will break down the home you’ve built with your husband and if it is worth dismantling by your own selfish and uncontrollable desire.
If you analyze all these and you still see the need to go ahead with your desire to have a taste of your boss’s flesh then is up to you.
It’s your defining moment in life and it’s your story, kindly take your time to make it worth reading. Time the says flies 🚀 *And had I know is the philosophy of the fools*. Stay safe.
You are rather chasing the wind 💨. Self-control is the basic understanding of a peaceful and sound mindset. *The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom*. My dear, you are on the edge, or let’s say it’s a defining moment to choose between good and bad. Any decision you choose today will go a long way to determining the next chapter of your life. Ponder over these,
1. How are you going to live with your husband after Shuperu with your boss?
2. If your husband finds out and divorces you in the process, how will you feel?
3. How are you sure your boss will stick with you to the end?
4. Put yourself in your husband’s shoes, imagine this same issue a vice-versa, and you find out eventually, would you forgive and continue with the relationship?
5. Now let’s come to the kids, do you think your children will forgive you when they find out? Go the extra mile and think about how this will break down the home you’ve built with your husband and if it is worth dismantling by your own selfish and uncontrollable desire.
If you analyze all these and you still see the need to go ahead with your desire to have a taste of your boss’s flesh then is up to you.
It’s your defining moment in life and it’s your story, kindly take your time to make it worth reading. The time they say flies 🚀 *And had I know is the philosophy of the fools*. Stay safe.
Hehehe… Dey play.
Wisdom!!!
The best person to talk to is GOD because what you are desiring is evil. Pray your way out and don’t entertain your boss whatsoever. God will help you
Thank you.
Your issue has to do with greediness. Also you don’t understand the difference between love and lust.
How can a man love a cheating wife? No man genuinely loves a cheating wife.
Your husband will definitely find out and he’ll have to decide for himself. As for your boss I know he’ll leave you because he doesn’t love you a bit
Hmmmmmm my dear the dsy you sleep with him my dear your boss himself would not trust you. He would see you as one thst another man can sweep you off his feet. So would not take you serious n never respect you. Be wise it would not be worth it