My fiancé and I have a child together. He has this friend. Her name is Gloria. They’ve known each other since JSS. She is married, but her husband lives abroad.
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Their friendship never bothered me until a year ago when he told me the lady got pregnant by her husband’s nephew.
“Ah, how did that happen?”
“He forced himself on her.”
“I don’t believe that story. Either she is sleeping around or she’s having an affair with her husband’s nephew.”
You should have seen how he defended her. He kept talking about how virtuous of a woman she is. He said Gloria’s husband wouldn’t even give her room to cheat. The man set spies on her and monitors her every move.
“If her husband feels the need to close-mark her like that, then he must have seen something about her to make him distrustful.”
That one too, he kept defending her. Then he told me he advised Gloria to get rid of the pregnancy. That part also annoyed me.
I asked him why he felt the need to advise a grown woman with four kids what to do with her pregnancy. He couldn’t answer me, and we left the conversation there.
Two days later, I had a dream. In that dream, my fiancé was the one responsible for the pregnancy. When I woke up, I prayed. I’m not a typical church girl, but I believe in God, and I asked Him to show me a sign if what I dreamt was true.
I stayed calm that whole day, trying not to think too much. Then, out of nowhere, while I was napping, my fiancé came to show me a funny video on his phone. I was watching the video when a message popped up. Instinctively, I opened it.
It was from Gloria. Her message read, “I’m going through all this pain for you.”
I scrolled up and saw that he had asked her, “Has the bleeding stopped?”
That was it. I flared up. I replied to her message, “Why are you going through this pain for him?”
Unfortunately, he snatched the phone, deleted my message, and started talking plenty. I told him straight up, “I know you’re the one who got her pregnant.” He denied it.
Later, he called one of his family members and lied that I falsely accused him of impregnating another woman. They said I didn’t have proof, so I should apologize. I knew I was right, but without concrete evidence, I said I was sorry for peace’s sake.
Two months passed. Then one night, I saw video calls from the same woman at an ungodly hour.
The next day, I confronted him again. I told him, “I know everything. I’m just being quiet.” I even confronted the Gloria woman, but she insulted me.
Funny thing is, my fiancé had both her number and her husband’s number saved on his phone. So, I took both numbers, but I made a mistake and saved only the husband’s number correctly. It didn’t matter though.
I played a little mind game and used that to get her real number from the husband himself.
I didn’t actually tell her husband anything. I just threatened Gloria that if she didn’t stop whatever she was doing with my man, I would expose everything to her man. Then I took a screenshot of my chat with her husband and sent it to her, just to let her know I wasn’t joking.
What did she do? She ran to her husband and told him I was accusing her falsely just because she’s been “helping” my guy. Her husband believed her because he already knew they were friends.
I didn’t want to be the reason behind anyone’s divorce, so I stepped back. This emboldened her. She insulted me, and her husband also threatened me.
“I will take you on when I come to Ghana for disgracing my wife,” he said.
A few months later, the man texted me again, saying he’s still waiting to see proof of everything I had accused his wife of doing. If not, he won’t forgive me for the slander.
Guess what? I do have proof. More than enough.
I have voice recordings of them meeting at hotels multiple times.
I have a recording of them having intimacy in her matrimonial bed.
I have voice recordings of them laughing about how I read their chats.
In one of the recordings, they discussed the pregnancy and the termination openly.
I’ve been collecting all this evidence since April 13 last year.
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Now I’m thinking of sending one of the recordings to the woman, just to let her know I know everything. I’m still with my fiancé because I love him. I’ve chosen to forgive them both, but I want them to know that I know the truth.
My question is, should I share the evidence with Gloria’s husband if he continues to threaten me?
—Mabel
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You are a joke yourself, a guy has disrespected you this much and cheats with a married woman without remorse and all you can say is I love him. Keep quiet don’t even send anything to the woman’s husband in fact there is no point in collecting those evidence. May sense locate you wherever you are cos you clearly lack that. And do well to love and respect yourself just a little. You sound like a simp
…and the sisterhood all shouted AMEN!
Hold on till the man comes and pushes to the breaking point.
And once it gets to that point, be ready to give leaving the pregnancy and abortion part, walk out of your marriage and go far away from all of them for your safety
yes madam, since her husband believes her more than you. as for your man forget about him
You have seen what death looks like but you have decided to call it sleep. Your guy knows you don’t have brains so he is gaslighting you and taking you for a fool. The biggest mistake is refusing to use your brains but your heart in a relationship. Stay there and make a fool out of yourself in the name of love. There are good men around so drop that cheat. I guess you are the police since you go around chasing your rival and collecting evidence. If you want to cry in your marriage so be it. Who you marry is really important not the marriage. Please choose wisely.
Your so call fiancé and the longtime married girlfriend and lover can kill you or eliminate you , if you expose their secret and remain in their circle. The abroad husband will never forgive you and will track you down to get details or blame you for their issues or divorce. If you expose their secrets, then be ready to call it quit and never look back. I can’t break them apart and be in their lives. Be ready to move on.
Your so call fiancé and the longtime married girlfriend and lover can kill you or eliminate you , if you expose their secret and remain in their circle. The abroad husband will never forgive you and will track you down to get details or blame you for their issues or divorce. If you expose their secrets, then be ready to call it quit and never look back. You can’t break them apart and be in their lives. Be ready to move on.
‘Detective’ Mabel, please, get rid of all the evidence you have and move on with your life. They mean nothing in the court of love. The only thing that matters is love, and apparently your fiancé doesn’t have enough for you. Be strong, although it’s not easy, and free yourself from this pain.