I want to be a mother. I have never been sure of anything as this my entire life. It has always been an innate desire of mine. I don’t know what I saw or who I saw being a mother that filled me with a great need to birth my own children and raise them in a good and happy home. I believe motherhood is a calling. Some women go through it to fulfill social and family obligations. I have heard some women choose motherhood when they are tired of all the disappointments men keep serving them. They just say, “I will let a man impregnate me then I will go on and raise the child on my own.” I want to believe I, have been called to motherhood.
I believe mine is a calling because of this little need that finds me whenever I am thinking about my life and where it’s going. Left to me alone I would have had kids long ago but I am always unlucky when it comes to relationships. I am like one of those women who have been served plates of disappointments by men one too many times. Every time I meet someone new who seems promising, I tell myself; “This is it. This is the one I am going to have my babies with.” But at the end of the day, things wouldn’t work out.
As I am here writing this, I am not getting any younger. The more I try to do with my life, the urge to become a mother gets stronger. It is as if my soul disagrees with all the ways I try to fill my life that isn’t about having kids and raising them. I keep getting this push that suggests I am taking too long to fulfill my purpose.
I keep holding off on starting this journey because, first, I believe it has to be done properly. And then, it has to be done with the right person.
When I say properly, I mean, I grew up poor. I watched my parents struggle to provide for me. I don’t want the same for my children. I want them to be kids. The kind who don’t get to pass up their childhood because they are worrying about money. I want to give them everything they want before they find the words to ask. That’s why I need to do it with the right person. A man who is willing to provide for his family.
I understand that the world has changed. I know that family dynamics are changing. Mum and Dad go to work and the kids stay in the care of a trusted relative, a domestic help, or a school teacher. I understand it is convenient to outsource the care of kids but it is not for me. I don’t want to leave my children in someone else’s care while I go to work. I want to be a full-time mum. I intend to be present in my children’s lives taking care of their every need so I can bond properly with them. This is why I need a man who is ready to be a father.
Although I have not given up on finding love, my need to honour this call of motherhood keeps burning in me. That’s why I am here on this page hoping to meet someone I can walk this talk with. A man who is a provider. One who yearns to be a dad just as I want to be a mum. Someone who will provide for me and our child.
He Woke Me Up At 2am And Asked Me To Go To My Mother’s House
I want to be a hands-on mum. I want to dedicate my life to raising them in love and not struggle. I don’t want to have to worry about what they will eat or wear or where they will sleep. I want them well provided for so that I can concentrate on them as a mother should. I will dedicate my life to building their character and nurturing them.
I’m happy to start my own business so that I can work at my own pace. That way I can attend to my family. I would like to meet a loving, caring, provider, to do this with. Age doesn’t matter to me. If there’s any man here who wants to do this with me, kindly send a message to the admin of the page.
These days women are shamed so much for choosing the domestic life but I know what I want. It is the life of a homemaker and I’m unashamed to own it. I am kind, loving, caring, and nurturing. You should see me for yourself.
—Araba
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This ur decision is not bad at all but being a full time mum, my dear ur man is going to so much responsibility so I will suggest u start ur business first before having kids.
Good evening dear beautiful am always available for ur life am also interested in your relationship,my contacts number and Whatsapp number(07034682643) thanks
Love 💕 your boldness you will be a good woman 👠
Admin, please give my details to Araba. I want a woman who can give more children? At least five will do. I accept her offer to be a stay at home wife or start her own business.
Araba, there are no short-cuts in life, otherwise we would all have arrived at our desired destination by now. There are so many unknowns involved in your simple-looking plan. Live according to the dictates of God – of course it’s not always easy, but then nothing good comes easy – and you’ll get your heart’s desired after a little suffering. You can’t avoid suffering in life.
Mistake will be any man who accept this offer or fall for it.
This is beautiful! Motherhood is truly a calling. This is exactly the life I have right now, so please don’t let naysayers tell you what is possible or not possible for YOU.
I am a full time mom, never worked a traditional job. This has afforded me the chance to nurture and raise my children in peace. By the abundant mercy and grace of God, God is so good, we are fully taken care of, properties to my name, etc.
I am passionate about personal development and building myself up regardless.
I wish I knew you personally to give you more steps to take but I know you will figure it out regardless because the desire is there. I just want to encourage every woman out there that this is possible, by the grace of God.