I told him two years ago that I was a virgin and I want to believe it’s one of the reasons he decided to marry me.
We did a lot of things when dating but we never had sexual intercourse. Two years later, we are close to getting married. The truth is, I’m not a virgin. I’m not even close to being a virgin.
I’d known three men sexually before he came into the picture. Our wedding is very close and obviously, this is not the right time to tell him the truth. A lot can change and the worst can even happen if I try to tell him the truth so I won’t go that route of telling him that I’m not a virgin.
I will like to go ahead with the virginity card but my question is, is there a way I can fake virginity? Is there something I can do during our first intercourse to prove to him that I’m indeed a virgin? Guys believe they should see a stain that day for it to be true so what can I do to get that scarlet stain?
I can act in pain. I can shake out of pain for it to be believable. I can shed tears and all that but would that be enough without a stain? I need help. I’m not a bad girl but just one lie I told might destroy everything for me.
—Rachel
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The truth shall set you free, Rachael. But twist it
a little. Tell him you were raped, and that was why you considered yourself a virgin. Too much truth could actually be bad for a relationship.
A marriage built on the foundation of a lie will destroy the whole thing. My dear kindly come out clean if you want to build your marriage well. Else ……… I rest my case.
I support Dorcas.
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I belive saying the truth is better than telling lies,becus god knows everything
You can easily fake virginity by faking it…perrrriod!
Lemme get this straight…you didn’t give him the cookie because your stance was sexy after marriage..and he believed you because you were allegedly a virgin??
Interesting.