I told him two years ago that I was a virgin and I want to believe it’s one of the reasons he decided to marry me.
We did a lot of things when dating but we never had sexual intercourse. Two years later, we are close to getting married. The truth is, I’m not a virgin. I’m not even close to being a virgin.
I’d known three men sexually before he came into the picture. Our wedding is very close and obviously, this is not the right time to tell him the truth. A lot can change and the worst can even happen if I try to tell him the truth so I won’t go that route of telling him that I’m not a virgin.
I will like to go ahead with the virginity card but my question is, is there a way I can fake virginity? Is there something I can do during our first intercourse to prove to him that I’m indeed a virgin? Guys believe they should see a stain that day for it to be true so what can I do to get that scarlet stain?
I can act in pain. I can shake out of pain for it to be believable. I can shed tears and all that but would that be enough without a stain? I need help. I’m not a bad girl but just one lie I told might destroy everything for me.
—Rachel
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The truth shall set you free, Rachael. But twist it
a little. Tell him you were raped, and that was why you considered yourself a virgin. Too much truth could actually be bad for a relationship.
A marriage built on the foundation of a lie will destroy the whole thing. My dear kindly come out clean if you want to build your marriage well. Else ……… I rest my case.
I support Dorcas.
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I belive saying the truth is better than telling lies,becus god knows everything
You can easily fake virginity by faking it…perrrriod!