Our firstborn is on the way coming. Very soon we would have a child after four years of marriage. To me, that’s what makes me happy but it looks like my husband is more concerned about the way the child would be born than how our dreams are going to materialise once he comes.

I’m twenty-six. Nurses tell me I shouldn’t have any problem with vaginal delivery but my husband insists we should have CS.

It started as a joke but he put some seriousness into it as time went on. “I know we are going to have a child but he shouldn’t come and destroy my kingdom for me.”

“What kingdom are you talking about?”

“It’s a tight zone and I want to keep it like that. He shouldn’t come and open up the gate with his big head.”

I got it. I was like, “Who told you he will have a big head? We only have to pray for safe delivery. That’s the most important thing.”

A few weeks to delivery and he has handed me a bunch of cash telling me to pay for CS. I said, “At least, let me try and see what happens first. I should just go in and tell them to do CS?” He answered, “I would be there. I will tell them myself.”

At least, I want to be given a chance to try but right from the start, he wants me to go in for CS. Isn’t that selfish?

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I’ve told him childbirth does nothing to his kingdom. I’ve shown him an article that says the same thing. He was like, “I know what I’m saying. I’ve dated a born one before and know how it feels.

I’m tired. Tell him something for me.

—Pat

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