I’m not a girl. I’m a woman. I’ve been here long enough to know who I want and what I don’t like in a man. I’ve met quite a few so I’ve learned a lot from them. My last relationship lasted for only four months. No sex, no kissing, nothing. When I saw what I didn’t like in him and we talked about it and he didn’t change, I walked out of the relationship.
Two months later, I met Cosmos. The way he approached me smelled like he wanted a relationship. A woman knows what a man wants no matter how deeply he shrouds his intentions. I assessed him that very day and told myself, “He ticks the boxes. I’ll like to know him better.”
The next day, Cosmos proposed. The whole thing went like like this;
Cosmos: “When I saw you yesterday, I knew I wanted to be with you. You have everything I want in a woman. I don’t know about you but I want something more than friendship.”
Me: “That’s fine. Let’s start and see how it goes.”
Cosmos: “That’s it? You’re my girlfriend?”
Me: “Yes. What do you expect?”
Cosmos: “So where do we start from?”
The next day he didn’t respond to my messages. My calls went unanswered. I thought something bad had happened to him. I knew only his office and not his house and it was a weekend so I didn’t know where to find him.
At late dawn the next day, he sent a long message saying, “It sounded so easy and I’m not comfortable with that. They say nothing good comes easy so I’m concerned. I’m sorry but I think there’s something wrong somewhere. Let’s leave it here.”
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According to him, when a girl comes this easy, she’s probably coming with baggage. But what’s the point of making love difficult?
He got it all wrong but I don’t blame him. He was just being a man. What I want to put across is this; she makes it difficult, it ends. She makes it easy, it still can end in heartbreak. I make it easy so I’ll take my time to know you before deep commitment. Is that wrong?
— Erica
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Dude is a super twerp ..period!!
Cosmos is a village boy. Let him be. You dodged a bullet.
Eiii KOO Cosmos gyimieee no?
This is very funny! Hahaha. The guy just couldn’t believe his luck. I like your type, no pretenses. When he comes back – and he
will- tell him not to worry. The hard part will come later for his enjoyment.
Mark George’s words. He will be back! But his immaturity doesn’t match your maturity and he has a lot of growing up to do. A man who knows what he wants will pick the cue that he’s met a confident woman who knows what she wants and treat her with respect. Never back down on your candor. Good to go!