My wife gave birth a few months ago and everything about her changed. Her chest is full. Her face rounded and her skin well toned and smooth. She doesn’t have big boobs. Hardly a handful but after delivery, her boobs have become twice bigger. Whenever I set my eyes on her, I want to play with them. I want to lay with her and not get up. She’s now a sex object to me yet she’s busy taking care of a two months old baby.
We haven’t had shuperu since delivery. She has some complications that make it difficult for us to do it. At night she can’t sleep. She’ll complain of migraine and remain restless until morning comes. Her mother lives with us. She helps with the baby and other things.
When her sickness got serious and we were taking her to the hospital, she put her head on my lap and my joystick jerked up immediately. She asked me, “Are you OK?” I didn’t answer.
Currently, she’s admitted to the hospital. When I go to the ward and I see a piece of her skin while she’s sleeping, my distin would get up. Because I’m her husband, she sees no reason to cover up. She would lie carelessly and open up her legs anyhow. Yesterday, I playfully asked, “Your mom is gone, can we do a quick one?”
She was like, “Here?” I nodded playfully. She said, “It looks like you don’t know where you are.”
Honestly, if she agreed, I would have done it. Her ward mate wasn’t around.
We haven’t done it for over four months and the way she looks isn’t helping matters. She’s in pain every day but all I think about is her small boobs gone big because of breast milk and how it would feel like to play with them during shuperu.
It’s like I can’t feel her pain. I’m not connected to her current situation so all I think about is shuperu even when she’s struggling to stand on her feet.
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Is it normal? To want to sleep with your wife while she’s sick and in pain? It looks like that’s all I think of these days and it makes me feel like I’m a horrible person. Has any man here gone through this before and what did you do to help yourself? Please tell me before I convince her to sleep with me in her condition
—Pete
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You are sex starved and that is why you are feeling horny around her despite her ill health. Personally I find my wife more attractive and sexy when she is ill weak and sleepy. But you got to control yourself for woman can misinterpret this feeling as being uncaring and insensitive to her plight.
I think you should let her know how you feel. You both may find a solution to it more quickly than you thought. Suffering silently here is deadly; communication is always key.