In 2022, I accepted to start dating Emmanuel, even after he told me all about his womanizing days. He told me how many women he had slept with and all the lies he had told. I still went ahead to date him because I believed the fact that he was honest enough to tell me meant he had changed.

The issues are many.

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We were supposed to move in together because my stepdad had evicted me from the house to go and live my own life. We took out a loan together to rent a place for ourselves, only for him to turn around and say he was going to move in with a friend instead. I was very angry. We spent so much money securing a place, only for him to choose a friend over me. I spoke to him about it several times, but he ignored me and stuck to his decision. I took it in good faith.

Before all of this happened, I got pregnant, and he asked me to abort it. I understood our situation, so I paid for the abortion with my own money. The second time I got pregnant, he asked me to terminate it again, and I paid for it myself once more. He didn’t reimbursed me.

After that, this guy started giving me attitude. It was insult upon insult, blocking and unblocking me, and all sorts of emotional games. Sometimes, when he behaved that way, I wouldn’t even engage him. Eventually, he would come back to apologize. That was when he started showing me his true colors.

Whenever I got pregnant, he no longer asked me to remove the pregnancy, but I always ended up miscarrying. The pain that comes with losing a pregnancy is almost unbearable. Every single time I got pregnant, the mistreatment would start. He would call me names, insult me, and even go as far as cursing me to lose the baby. Then I would miscarry, and he would cry even more than I did.

After the last miscarriage, I made up my mind that from then on, I would treat him exactly the way he treated me. If he insulted me, I insulted him back and even added his generation. If he refused to call me for days, I also stayed away. He couldn’t even take a pinch of his own medicine. He eventually begged me to forgive him and stop treating him that way.

I’m currently almost seven months pregnant, and throughout this journey, I have been doing everything myself. I pay for food, hospital visits, and every other expense while still working. Honestly, being such an understanding girlfriend hasn’t helped me. Why have I been making all these sacrifices, doing almost everything, and still being taken for granted?

Last month, he came around. While he was asleep, the feeling that he was doing something behind my back became overwhelming. For the first time, I went through his phone while he was sleeping. What I saw nearly broke me.

He had been sleeping with a lady he met on Facebook. I had asked him about her before, and he made it seem like she wasn’t his type. He denied having anything to do with her.

Then I found out he had also gotten involved with another woman who is 40 years old. Nothing was more heartbreaking than discovering that he traveled all the way from Tema to Dansoman just to sleep with her, even though I live nearby. He could have simply come to me.

I woke him up and started asking questions. The moment he saw his phone in my hands, he broke down crying and started begging me.

Again, I forgave him, but this time I laid down rules that he had to follow until I gave birth. He agreed to every one of them. Things were good between us for a while. We even started making plans together.

Then yesterday, he cheated on me again.

When I confronted him, instead of owning up to what he had done, he started insulting me and saying all sorts of demeaning things to me. Honestly, I have decided to teach him a lesson because I don’t know what I did to deserve being treated this way after all the sacrifices I have made and all the emotional investment I have put into this relationship. After everything, he still had the nerve to insult me after being caught.

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No problem.

I’ve decided to teach him a lesson in a spiritual way for a month or two so he will know never to treat someone badly after hurting them.

— Kuukua
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