My boyfriend’s ex is tormenting my life. They dated for three years and, according to my boyfriend, she cheated and he left her. A year later, I came into the picture.

I remember we went out once and took some pictures, and my boyfriend posted one of the photos on his Facebook. That same day, I got a message from this lady asking for my contact because she had “a very important message” for me.

I gave her my contact, and the first thing she sent was a photo of herself kissing my boyfriend. She said, “You’re dating a man I’m also dating. You don’t have to tell him now. Let’s discuss it before we both approach him.”

I don’t like drama, so I quickly showed the photo to my boyfriend and asked, “Who is this girl, and why are you kissing her?”

He answered, “That’s Dora, my ex I told you about. This photo is over four years old. How did you get it?”

So I showed him the message and the contact. Right in front of me, he called her and gave her a dressing-down I’ve never heard a man give anyone. I was even apologizing on her behalf and asking him to take it easy. He turned to me and said, “She will never try such a silly thing again in her life.”

He was wrong. This girl was only just beginning to do her worst. She called me and insulted the hell out of me for giving her away. “Do you think you’re special? He will treat you the same way he treated me.” I answered, “I’m not going to cheat on him, so I don’t think I’ll get the same side of the stick that you got.”

“Oh, is that what he told you? Wait and see.”

Weeks later, she texted. She said my boyfriend was chasing another lady she knew and that her name was Sylvia. She sent me a photo of the lady and captioned it, “At least this one has an ass and is fair, something you don’t have.”

I blocked her on WhatsApp, but I still showed the photo to my boyfriend, and he denied ever meeting someone like that. That day too, he called her and put the phone on speaker. He asked her to provide evidence of him seeing another lady or he would report her for harassment. She only chuckled and cut the call.

I had blocked her on WhatsApp, so she turned to texting me on iMessage. This time, she sent me a photo of my boyfriend and said, “Why is he wearing the same shirt I bought for him years ago? Don’t you take care of him?”

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Out of anger, I took that particular shirt from his wardrobe and threw it away.

You would block her here, and she would appear somewhere else or contact you with a different number.

So I asked her, “What do you want from me before you’ll rest in peace where you are?”

She answered, “You’re the reason he left me, and you think you deserve peace?”

Now I don’t know what to do to avoid her. You may think you’re ignoring her, but she has so much time to get on your nerves. Will the police help? Or should I send guys to show her some shege so she leaves me alone?

—Nadia

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