I’ve dated three women in the past two years, and they all failed a simple test I gave them. I loved all of them, but in the end I had to let them go because they didn’t look like marriage material. The first one was Erica. I didn’t tell her anything, but anytime she came to visit, she didn’t cook or help clean my room. Even when I gave her money to buy food, she preferred to buy from a restaurant rather than prepare food for us to eat.
I left her before the relationship reached a year. Then Araba came. I told her what I needed in a woman: “Someone who will help with house chores and also understand the fact that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.”
She came and didn’t bother to light the stove or help me clean. I was doing laundry one day, and she added the dress she had worn while visiting and said, “If you won’t wash it, leave it. I will do it myself.”
She wouldn’t lift a finger, but when she needed money, I was the first person she would call. That relationship also ended. I even suspected she was cheating because she dressed better than her finances could support.
I’m still with the third lady, Jessica. It’s over, but she doesn’t know it’s over. She told me point-blank that if I wanted her to do all that, then I should marry her first. But she expects me to give her money and do favors for her every now and then, even though she’s not my wife. How can you marry a woman when she hasn’t proved herself?
I Called My Girlfriend And Another Man Answered The Phone
It’s not fun starting a new relationship, but it looks like the women I find don’t know what to do to keep a man or keep a home going. They lack the skills to keep a man happy but instead expect a man to keep them happy. Where are the women who understand love and know how to live it? Or are they just not made like that these days?
Three women in two years, and they all behaved like they were doing me a favor by dating them. Or am I the one expecting too much from them?
—Lord
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Boss, u need a house help ooo, not a wife. You are not ready for marriage.
Because how can you tell me this story.
😂😂😂😂you are expecting too much
You’re approaching it from the wrong angle bro, very very few ladies will just start relationship and off the bat start doing house chores for their guy. It starts somewhere and ends somewhere too so it takes time. If you’re living in the same room with them and this happening then that’s another problem. But since they come to spend some time and leave then it’s not that surprising what’s surprising is the lady who wanted you to wash her dress . I think right from the start, you started simping cuz a lady who respects you and wants a future with you won’t come to your place and give you her dress to wash. Giving them gifts/money or any sort of help should be because you want to do it, not because they asked or demanded or feel like they’re your responsibility. They were living their lives before you came so if you can help them, do so but don’t over do it. That’s why you feel entitled because wo ho akc di mu. Build your life and focus on yourself. You’ll attract the right type. And don’t expect too much in the beginning too. Nobody wants to be used
🤣🤣🤣 eeeiii your standard is not the best. Do those women wash, cook and clean by themselves at home? If yes, then you have no problem. Women have learnt their lessons. You will do all those chores for years and the man will not marry you. He will claim he’s still studying you after years of dating.
If you want the milk, buy the cow!
Hw3, na wo woy3 serious? Wei ara. Gyama biribi regyegye wo. What are househelps, nannies, cooks, there for? If not for some of these things? So you expect to marry a woman who works to take care of herself and supprt you financially, and still comes home everyday to slave for you? Wony3 serious. Get a househelp na gyae ns3mhunu no w) h). Whose daughter should turn into your maid? You tell them what you expect in a woman yet they fail. If they tell you what they also expect in a man is to buy them the latest clothes, build them a house, buy a car, give monthly allowance of ordinary 5000 cedis mpo k3k3 koraa, etc, won’t you call them materialistic? Yet they have to meet your standard but you cannot meet theirs.
Funny enough, it’s the men who will hardly spend any proper money on a woman who would demand all these things, all in the name of love. Fa wo poor love no firi h) k) na y3ndwen.