We were getting along just fine, a stranger who walked into my life one day and decided to make me part of his life. He would call first thing in the morning and last thing at night. He told me I was the most beautiful woman he’d ever approached and didn’t get embarrassed saying it.

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Our first date happened at the beach. We strolled, we talked, we did some painting that looked like a child’s scribble. Our next date was another night walk in my neighborhood. He talked a storm and made me laugh my head off. I liked him. I must be honest, I loved him. I was only waiting for him to make his intentions known.

One day, he proposed through a text. Though I liked him, I said he should give me a few days to think about it. He asked how long, and I answered, “I really like you, so it shouldn’t take forever. I just want to assess myself and see if I’m in the right place to love.”

Two days later, he sent me a photo of his “thing” on WhatsApp and said, “While you’re assessing yourself, assess this one too and see if it’s something you can take. I don’t want to hide anything from you. That’s the size and length. It can be bigger and longer when fully up.”

I was stunned. For several minutes, I didn’t know how to respond. I asked, “Is it only intimacy you want or do you want to have a real relationship?” He answered, “It’s all part of it. I’ve lost women because of this. They left when I was heavily invested. I don’t want that to happen again, that’s why I’m showing it to you.”

Since then, conversations between us have been sketchy. I’m conflicted. He looks like a cool, honest guy. It’s not even the size or anything, but the fact that he would send this to me shows intimacy means a lot to him. I’m not all about that at this age I find myself in. I want a real connection. I want something built to last, and I don’t believe these qualities would come from a man whose first action is to send me his size.

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I don’t know what to say or do. He keeps asking me for feedback. I keep telling him I’m still thinking about it. I want to say no to him, but he’s been a good guy. Apart from that, his “thing” is also my favorite size. I’m conflicted. I want to fall and fall on something soft. I don’t want to settle between a hard place and a rock. So I’m asking you to help me decide. Is it honesty when he sent his thing, or is it just him telling me all he needs me for is “knacking”?

—Delphine

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