I was on TikTok watching this food influencer’s video. She had gone to a popular restaurant in East Legon and was talking about their services and all. While she stood there talking, something caught my attention, a couple in the background of the video.

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I watched carefully and saw my boyfriend with another woman in the background, laughing and chilling over drinks. I knew the lady he was with. We had fought over her on several occasions, and he denied ever being with her. I saved the video and sent it to him. “What are you and Lois doing in this video? Someone you said there’s nothing going on with?”

“Who and who? Where? I don’t know what you’re talking about,” he responded.

I called him. “You mean to tell me you can’t see you and Lois in the background?” He said the background was blurry and the man there wasn’t him, and that he didn’t know anything about Lois. When we met, I zoomed into the video. “Look, even the blind can see it’s you.”

He still denied it.

I’ve shown the video to my friends who know him. They laughed. “Maybe he’s blind or we are blind,” one told me. “He’s simply denying the truth, so just forget it and continue with the relationship or just break up.”

I’ve watched the video more than a million times, and it gets me so emotional that he’s playing dumb with me. So last night, I called him and told him, “The guy in the video is my boyfriend, but if you say you’re not the guy in the video, then I’m talking to the wrong guy. Sorry, but I can’t continue playing this game.”

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When he came home to talk, I thought he was going to apologize or tell me something sensible. He said, “So you’ll let a shadow in the background of a video break us apart after two years? Then you didn’t love me at all.”

Eiii, so some men can go this far just to deny the obvious? He’s making me feel like I’m crazy and don’t know what I’m talking about. Naaa, I’m done.

—Dora

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