Mike is not broke, he just happens to be stingy. We started dating in April last year and I can’t count on my fingers the number of times he has been generous to me.

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Throughout the relationship, the closest he came to spending money on me was whenever he gave me 1000 naira. Even that one, he wouldn’t part with his money until after we’ve had intimacy.

Since he wouldn’t use protection, I would have to buy pregnancy prevention pills with my own money. Anything that had to do with spending money in the relationship didn’t concern him. There were times when he refused to buy food for himself when he was hungry. I would have to feed him.

You would think he is poor, but he is rich. He earns well. I don’t know how he spends his money but he ends up borrowing money from me. By the time I came to see him for the stingy man he was, we were one year into the relationship.

I imagined the future I would have with him and it scared me. So I broke up with him. He owed me 50K at the time but he paid 39K. It’s left with 11K. How to get it back has become a problem.

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One time I threatened him out of frustration. “If you don’t give me the money, I will publish your pictures everywhere and tell people you owe me money.”

“Try it and see if I won’t also publish your nudes everywhere,” he retorted.

I don’t want to call his bluff. I just want my money back. How should I go about it?

—Damilola

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