My wife is that woman who talks to her family about everything that happens in our marriage. I’ve tried to tell her where to draw the line but this woman wouldn’t listen to me. She would tell her mom the bad sex we had, the quarrel we had that was right, the money I didn’t spend on her, the girlfriend she suspects I have.
I got tired and decided to look out for myself. I stopped picking up her mom’s calls whenever I suspected she had made complaints about me. I respect my father-in-law very much but I’m sad to say that he’s not a man enough. His wife calls out the shot so complaining to him is like talking to a wall.
My wife didn’t sleep at home one night. We hadn’t fought or quarrelled. I called her line severally until later in the night she picked up and said, “I’m sleeping at my parents’ place. I came here to see them but it was late so I decided to sleep here.”
It didn’t sound credible so I called her father and asked about her. Her father responded, “She hasn’t been here. If she’s on her way coming, then I don’t know.”
My wife didn’t pick up my calls again so I called her dad again. I called like four times but the man didn’t pick up. I called my mother-in-law in the morning. She said, “She was here last night. She decided to sleep over because she was too tired.”
When I asked her to give the phone to my wife to talk to her she told me my wife was still sleeping and would ask her to call me when she wakes up. The call never came until I saw my wife’s face hours later.
It turned into a fight. I wasn’t going to accept her explanation so she called her mother and put her on the loudspeaker. Her mother said, “If you’re tired of my daughter, you can divorce her. I’m tired of resolving your issues all the time. Adwoa, you see why I asked you to marry that guy abroad? You won’t listen to me. See your life now?
My Wife Has The Spiritual Powers To Detect Cheating
Our marriage hasn’t been the same since that time. I decided to take her mother’s advice and leave the marriage. My wife says I shouldn’t leave her because of the careless statement her mother made. Her mom has made a U-turn with an apology. She said she lied about the abroad guy. All that doesn’t concern me than the truth about where she slept that night. Nobody has been able to explain.
I’ve left home and now living with a friend. I’m trying everything to extract confession from them but none of them is saying anything. If you were in my shoes, what would you have done?
—Abraham
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You said your father- in- law is not man enough, if you are man enough, then this is one that you can’t let go. I am opposed to divorce, but the Bible allows it in case of infidelity. You need to get to the bottom of this for the respect you deserve in this marriage.
please divorce if she is ready to tell you where she spent her night , from the look of things she cheated and used her parents as a decoy.
Dear Abraham, although the situation looks dicey, it’s possible she did not cheat. Don’t jump into conclusions try to get facts. Has she always been like these or is it the first time, is she someone u don’t trust, Have a deep conversation with her. Pray, May the Holy spirit direct u.
She shld ans her husband questions.
He just needs the truth and from the response he’s getting, obviously is not convincing enough. Knowing very well that you’re being lied to. It’s difficult to accept the lies and move on. She has to tell her husband the truth3
This is not about where she spent the night. It’s about the disrespect they are displaying towards you. No man deserves to be talked to in the manner your mother in-law spoke about you been her second choice. Never return to that house except yo evict your wife or pack all your stuff out of the house you share with your wife. The burger can come for your secondhand goods.