My wife is seven months and two weeks pregnant. She’s not having it easy. Pain here, pain there, dizziness somewhere else. She’s visiting the hospital now more than in the initial stages of the pregnancy. I’m sad for her. Sometimes she stays awake all night crying and nagging about certain pain she herself can’t pinpoint where the pain is located in her body.

Upon all the pain she’s going through, this woman doesn’t spare me when it comes to the action. She wants it every day and in every situation. While crying about certain pain, she’ll wake me up and say, “Let’s do it, the pain will go away.” She will complain about dizziness and go like, “That’s what happens if I don’t do it for a day. Let’s go so you give it to me.”

You should see the size of her tummy and the way she’ll contour her body just to get one round. It disturbs me a lot and makes me uncomfortable. I feel we might end up hurting the baby and the rate at which she wants it makes me scared. This is our first so we are both inexperienced. It’s like walking through the dark but my wife has an invisible light she uses to find the road.

Currently, I feel like she’s manipulating me. She’s using the nagging about pain, headache and dizziness just to get me to knack even when I’m not able to. I try to fight it sometimes but I dare not deny her. I better do it dead than alive and not do it. She’ll cry. She’ll wake me up at dawn and ask me to take her to the hospital. She’ll tell me ants are crawling all over her skin so she can’t sleep. The last time she said she had a dream and the baby was playing with her clit**is so the baby misses me.

Is that normal? That a pregnant wife would want it every day and without it, she could go blind? I’m tired ooo. If we had help around, I would have gone to rest at my parents’ house before this woman finishes me.

Is there a medicine to calm her down? Is there anything I can do to help her sleep better so she doesn’t dream dreams? I’m walking with a ‘HELP’ sign on my forehead because I need all the help I can get.

— Felix

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