When I met Serwaa she was very good and respectful toward me. I didn’t have a lot of money but I had what it took me to afford a comfortable living. I am from the streets of Accra. I started fending for myself at an early age so I was initiated into internet fraud. The cash flow is inconsistent but I get what I need.

Even with the little money I had, I found ways to make Serwaa feel loved. In return, she was humble and appreciative. Honestly, what made me like her more than anything was the fact that she gave me shuperu constantly. Every minute of every day, if I needed her she gave it to me. I mean always. So I asked her to move in with me.

My family was against her living with me but I stood my ground. I lived in my mother’s house but I did whatever I wanted. Even when they didn’t support my decisions, I did them anyway.

Two days after Serwaa moved in with me, I started seeing certain things that concerned me. My girlfriend would leave home and not return until she felt ready. Sometimes this meant she spent the night wherever she went. There were times when she returned home in the morning only to spend most of the day sleeping. I would check her while she is asleep and find that she is filled with sperm.

Whenever I asked her where she went she wouldn’t say anything sensible. I saw all this but I was blinded by love so I didn’t do anything about it. My inaction only encouraged her to do worse. It got to a point where she started making video calls with other guys using my phone, right in front of me.

She sometimes used my phone to take pictures of her womanhood in front of me and sent them to guys. Some of our friends even told me she was sleeping with fifteen boys in a day. Foolish love blinded me so I didn’t take any of them seriously.

The more I kept quiet, the more empowered she became when it came to maltreating me. This girl would insult me and even insult my mother who we were both living with. Meanwhile, she is from a very poor home like me. Her mother lives in somebody’s uncompleted building. It was one of the reasons I took her in. Yet, she had the guts to insult my family members.

After all the awful things she did, I still sent her mum and her sister money whenever they needed it. Serwaa would be in another man’s and call me saying, “There is no money at home. Can you send something to Mama for me? Because I was in love, I did it without question.

I remember one time she left my place for almost three weeks. I had no idea where she went but on the day she returned, she asked me to meet her at a place in our town. When I met her and we were about to go home, her friend called her. I didn’t what exactly her friend said but it involved a guy. There and then Serwaa’s plans changed. “I have to go somewhere so I will see you later,” she said.

I told her not to go but as soon as the guy arrived in his Corolla LE, my girl sat in the car. I stood there looking at Serwaa like a little boy who knew his mother was about to go to the market without him. The guy must have seen my face and noticed my pain. He asked me, “Do you need a ride? I can drop you off.” It was obvious he genuinely wanted to help me but my girlfriend answered for me. “Oh, this one? He is just a friend. Don’t bother picking him up,” she said. I felt like a nobody as I watched them drive off.

A girl who was supposed to love me became a weapon fashioned against me. She knew I used my phone to work but she would take it away on her escapades with her boyfriends. She would be gone with it for as long as two weeks, forcing me to use my laptop for all my communication needs.

Her behavior continued until one day she told me she was pregnant. “If you are pregnant it’s not mine,” came my response. She reported me to her mother who threatened to tell my mother I was denying my responsibilities as her father. They asked me for money to get rid of it. I was broke but the thought of having a baby with her pushed me to go to my mum for the money.

She was about to go to school in Nkawkaw before she got pregnant, so she went there to take care of it. all this pregnancy thing happened. Even after the deed was done, she would call me demanding money. I would share the little I had with her and she would insult me before hanging up.

One time she called me and requested money again. By then, I had had enough of her. I refused to give her the money and insulted me. I was used to her tantrums by now so I didn’t let it get to me. After the phone call, she blocked me. It hurt but I was thankful. I deleted her number and made up my mind not to have anything to do with her anymore.

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God being so good, one of my clients sent me a huge sum of money. I bought a Camry Spider Sports and a house at one of the estates in Ghana. Out of pettiness, I sent pictures of the car to her friends to show it to her.

After that, Serwaa started calling me incessantly but I never answered her calls. She told her mum and other relatives to beg me on her behalf but I was the only one who knew what she put me through so I refused. Besides, I don’t feel anything for her anymore. With the change in my status, I started meeting sexier and curvier girls.

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Serwaa is now angry and threatening me with juju. Just recently, a certain guy who is a fake juju man came to me that Serwaa brought my boxer shorts to him. She asked him to cast a spell on me so I would start loving her again. Either that or he should destroy my luck and make me poor again.

My question is, what did I do wrong? Was she not the one who told another man I was just a friend just because he had a car and I didn’t? Now that I am a Chairman and have my own car, why does she want my downfall? Please, what should I do about her?

—Franklin

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