The way my girlfriend treats other people makes me want to leave her. I’ve talked about it with other people in my circle and what they say is, “As far as she treats you well, what do you have to fear?” Life is not about only me. Is about other people too. If today she’s treating strangers this way, who knows where else she may take it?
We went out and met this waitress who served us exceptionally well. She was virtually at our beck and call all night. When we were leaving. I gave her a tip. When I asked my girlfriend to get up and let’s leave, she asked, “What about the change? Ain’t you going to collect it?”
When I told her it was a tip, she followed the waitress in the pub and took the money from her. I was so embarrassed I asked her not to do that again. She screamed, “Why do you pay her for doing her job? That’s what you guys do and become poor in life.”
Since that day, anytime when we stepped out, she would talk to waitresses anyhow. When they are too friendly, she talks down on them. She tells me they are doing nwhiwhɛnim. When they are not friendly, she would scream at them and question their competence. One evening, she had to report one of these waitresses to their manager for a bad service.
She tries to make everyone’s job difficult whenever we go out. She would take the receipt and go through it one after the other while questioning the waitress, “Why is this costing this much? This small drink we took? Are you sure you’ve not added your chobo on top?”
She tells me she’s protecting my resources but that’s not how I see it. When it comes to her, she wants more. When little goes to someone else, she complains. That’s not how I was raised but she thinks I love these girls that’s why I try to make them feel fine.
I’ve Thought About How To Blame God
Not only in restaurants alone. She would point at strangers and make mean comments about them. You know, we all are not on the same level but she doesn’t see it that way. I’m weighing my options. Talking to her hasn’t yielded any results. She thinks she’s right and I’m wrong. Should I go one with her just the way she is?
SHARE | Help Others See It Too
—Alfred
This story you just read was sent to us by someone just like you. We know you have a story too. Email it to us at [email protected]. You can also drop your number and we will call you so you tell us your story.
Alfred to be honest with you she is not good . What is the essence of her being nice to you and not to people around you. See all she is doing and will do will end up sacking people away from you. Just break up with her. She is disgracing you now and will do same when you get married to her. If she likes only you de3 me nua she will also not like you siblings and parents to come around more often for a visit. These kind of people will drive you mad with their behaviour. A fool is someone who does not change. Forgive me but your girlfriend is a fool. Her behaviour will block your way to opportunities. The day you will end up being in need people won’t help you because of her. She is more than slow poison and the devil. You helping others is a distasteful thing for her. My dear what makes you think she will allow you to help your family when you get married. Get someone who pushes you to do good to others and not someone who fights against you. Remember in this life one bad cancels all the good. I some times tip the waitresses when I go out to eat and even the uber drivers . There’s nothing wrong with that. My dear remove the obstacle from your life. Thank you.
Well said my sister.
Maame Efua has said it all. She is not good for you. I think she is selfish for wanting more for herself and not others. This one wilk contibue to disgrace you and oush all ulyour lived ones away with this bad attitude.
Let her go.
Maame Efua has said it all. She is not good for you. I think she is selfish for wanting more for herself and not others. This one will continue ibue to disgrace you and drive all your loved ones away with this bad attitude.
Let her go.
that’s her weakness, be a man and admonish her. If she doesn’t change, then u got to change her for better.
God created us to help each other
She will ruin you. Run and run fast
I kinda like it when my partner also notices and appreciates good customer service. In such instances, I would give a tip even if my partner doesn’t but this one here na waa o.. And to be passing mean comments about strangers, that’s not cool. Sisterhood is ashamed of you ma’am. Alfred please leave her be ok since she doesn’t even see anything wrong with such an awful behavior. You sound like a cool man though, you don’t deserve that.
She’s being FAKE. she will treat you the same as the strangers if you guys get married, for now she wants the marriage so pretending to be nice around you.
Please take that bold step and flee from her and never look back again.