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I didn’t finish telling my story before the first part was published, so here is the continuation. Before I go on, I want to say that I saw a lot of comments judging me but that is fine. Some people even said I need deliverance. If that’s the case then they should recommend a pastor to me. Now, here’s what happened when my uncle returned to Ghana.
The day he came to my grandma’s place, I jumped into his arms. He even looked better in person and smelled so good. We held each other for a few seconds before the voice of my grandma tore us apart. She also ran into the arms of her son. That day we all had fun when both mother and son decided to tease me. For the first time in a long time, I laughed till my tummy hurt.
I served him the special meal we made for him but he insisted we eat together. As we were eating, our eyes kept meeting. I felt uneasy. He noticed it and told me, “You should relax and feel comfortable around me.” I didn’t respond. I just smiled and kept my head down like a shy teenage girl.
My uncle stayed with us until it was late in the evening. My grandmother was surprised when this happened. She joked, “He doesn’t spend this much time with me when he visits. Maybe it’s because of you, Leah. Maybe you should carry your bags and follow him home.” We all laughed over it.
When he was leaving, he asked if I was free the next day. I smiled and said yes. He then told my grandmother that he would like to take me out to a place the next day. “Please, take her out. She is always indoors,” my grandma gave her consent.
The next day came and I could tell he put in a lot of effort into dressing up, whereas, I was casually dressed in a pair of jeans and a simple blouse. When I saw him I protested, “Ah uncle, I can’t go out with you oooo. Look at how nicely dressed you are.” He only smiled and pulled me into a big hug. Then he said, “You look beautiful in anything you wear, my baby.”
The sound of his heartbeat was so pleasant that I wished I could stay there all my life. There’s just something about the way he hugs me that is so comforting and soothing.
After we broke the hug, we went into his car and he took me on our first date. He held my hand and because of his looks, you could mistake him for my boyfriend and not my uncle.
We had so much fun. And by the time we were heading back to my grandmother’s place, it was late and she was already calling us. My uncle who held my hands at every opportunity he got blurted out the words, “I love you.” It came out of nowhere.
I could see it took him so much courage to say it. “Right from the moment we had our first video call, I haven’t been able to get you out of my head. It’s fine to turn me down but I think you should know how I feel about you because I can’t keep it to myself anymore,” he concluded.
At this time, he had completely won my heart. “I love you too, uncle.” I said, “But we are related. I can’t do what you want.” He pulled over in a dark place and kissed me. The butterflies I felt that very instant was out of this world. I kissed him back, and by the time we ended the kiss, we were panting. We didn’t need a seer to tell us we wouldn’t be alright until we’ve had more.
In our moment of forbidden passion, he said, “You shouldn’t suppress your feelings for me. I am an adult and I know what is right from what is wrong. Right now, this feels right for both of us. It may be wrong for other people but we don’t have to worry about them.” I was losing my senses to this beautiful man in front of me even though he was my mother’s brother. Before I could regain my composure he suggested, “Let’s spend the night at my place so we can talk better.”
I didn’t expect things to move so fast. I remember asking him, “What are we going to tell Grandma and your wife?” He responded, “My wife went to her mother’s place with the kids. They will be back tomorrow. As for Grandma, I’ll call and tell her you’ll be with me tonight. She won’t suspect a thing.” I know I should have refused but I loved the way he kissed me. I wanted more from him so I nodded.
Right then, he called my grandmother and told her that I would be spending the night at his house. Poor grandma said she had prepared dinner for us to eat together and insisted we come over but my uncle said she should keep the food in the fridge. They went back and forth on the phone until my uncle won. And we ended up at his mansion.
The moment we were behind closed doors, we devoured each other’s lips. In a twinkle of an eye, I was stark naked in front of him. He couldn’t help but admire my body. You could see the awe in his eyes. He undressed himself but I couldn’t look at him. “Look at me,” he pleaded. But I just couldn’t do it.
My shyness didn’t stop him from making love to me right there and then. I felt like a woman. He went down on me and gave me multiple orgasms. The kind I could only fantasize about when I was with my ex. That night I cried out in pleasure and submitted myself to him.
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Ever since then, I’ve grown to be comfortable around him. I am able to make love to him the way I want to. He also takes care of my needs without me having to ask him. And he pushes me to chase my dreams. Just when I had moved on, my ex came back begging for another chance but I was already in love with my uncle so I didn’t take him back.
It’s been over two years since we started dating and we’ve managed to keep our relationship under wraps. Our love has grown and now we are inseparable. Currently, we are on the verge of eloping. However, I know this will ruin his marriage and his relationship with his mother and mine.
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I’ve tried to break up with him but it didn’t work. He completes me in ways I cannot imagine. And he refuses to let me go. The last time he came home, he was trying hard to get me pregnant but I took pills to prevent it. He doesn’t want us to hide anymore but I fear I’ll be labelled the devil. His children and everyone in our family will never forgive us if we come out. How can something so wrong feel so right?
Right now, I’m trying to get into a relationship with another guy, just to get my uncle out of my heart but the sound of his voice weakens me. I don’t know if I can be helped. I don’t know how long we can keep this relationship going before it blows up in our faces. I am just here to get this off my chest. I don’t know what the future holds but I am taking it one day at a time.
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—Leah
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Oooh my dear I can’t judge and won’t judge you. Live a day at a time. Pray for strength to move on. Don’t force yourself to unloved him. Just keep some distance from him. You deciding not to break up your family is a start so definitely you will break free.
I know it’s not easy but you can get help from the Church of Pentecost Kaneshie English Assembly.
The realization that it’s wrong and society frowns on it makes it easier to free yourself. Know that you have the power to move away from that addiction. With determination and pure concentration on your will power, you will overcome. Another way is taking a holiday, get busy with thought that are pleasant to freedom. As listening to powerful message, music and reading the the word of God, and praying but don’t torture yourself. Trust that God has forgiven, forget about what men including yourself thinks. Don’t trust any body to help. The power is in you. And if you are diligent you’ll know that it’s possible. That’s faith and it’s your victory. You’re loved, stay blessed.
Food eaten in secret is sweet- not because its more special than a homecooked meal. There is a way that seems right to a man/ woman but its end is destruction.
Heeerrrrrrrr, am I the only one reading it anaaa. Eeeeiiiii my sister you need prayers oooo, but the way call me on 0244793034
You’ve actually had sex with your mother’s brother? What kind of sick ass movie script is this? This is the kind of man (uncle) who wouldn’t mind sleeping with his own daughter. Sick, phyco duo!!
This is really sickening to read. Your uncle is the type of guy who could sleep with his own kid. And you, you’re proud sleeping with your married uncle (your very mother’s brother?)
So when the relationship get blown out it means that the society’s rumors that something wrong is going on with the two of you,is right? Thing of the names that will be given to you, husband, children, family, friends. The stories that will come to mind at the site of your mere image. There is nothing like soul mate in the blood line family. Remember God did everything right and beautiful. Fellow that knocking in your hear that says is wrong and is wrong. Just denied that your lustful ego, let go. I’m not also judging you but sometime some truths looks the judgmentals.
This is incest, pure and simple. Nobody is judging you, just check the dictionary. So if you had similar feelings for your brother you’ll act on it? There are billions of other men in the world. That’s not the way God planned it,
Hello dear. Life can give a twist no one expects. I know you’re going through even a greater torture. And to have come out writing means you have accepted so much and worked so hard. To even speak the truth has made you super. You see this energy in you, do not quench it. Use it. You don’t have to break family. You just need to redecide and stand tall. Although you feel plenty of emotions stand against it the same way you want to stand against eating chocolates. Just tell yourself a doctor diagnosed you of some condition and is stopping you from hazardous menus. Now get a good diet. You can make it. You’re not bad. You are having opportunities to become stronger.
Herr you are sleeping with your uncle, like seriously? Madam what is not acceptable is not acceptable no need to massage it. And one day you will go and marry someone’s son without confessing the truth to him and only God knows the spiritual implications that it will bring to your marriage.
You see how the devil works, when you started having the feelings and thoughts, he didn’t let you come to your senses ooo but after you committed the abomination.
I don’t know your tribe but if you were an Ashanti you maternal uncle is practically your father.
He’s a very wicked man and God will punish him for what he’s done to you.
Please stop the nonsense and the delivish act before you suffer the consequences.
Of all the sins in this world is this what you decided to commit?
Do you know the kind of things people feel and yet they control them.
Madam stop making excuses and tell uncle no I can’t do it anymore. If he doesn’t want to use his conscience atleast use yours for once.
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Am sure right now she does not need all the judgement.
The Bible says, him without sin to be the first to cast the stone. She needs support, guidance and prayer to be able to get away from that situation
This is way beyond sin, it is mmusuo. It’s the kind of act that get people driven out of town in the olden days. It puts a curse on families for generations. You can’t just stop it, if your grandmother becomes aware of it you will have to go through some cleansing rituals. It’s not everything we joke with madam.
I don’t think anybody is judging her cos I don’t think anybody has told her she will be going to hell.
She needs to understand that it’s not all feelings one needs to pursue. You don’t have to be that selfish, you need to think of the other people involve who will be hurt by the outcome.
Nobody is condemning her, I believe people have had similar feelings before but allowed their conscience to work.
Confession must come before prayers so should start from there by telling her grandma.
Hmm….this is why Jesus told us to pray against falling into temptation and to be kept away from evil…indeed this should be our daily prayer
Leah, it’ll be hard but it’s possible. Take it one day at a time and be circumspect with whom you share this with.
Get a certified counsellor to help
Get busy, extremely busy .
eeeiii🙆🙆🙆, some of us commit sins to the extent that the devil himself becomes shock 😃
the bible says that the fear of the Lord is the hatred of sins.
I know we all commit sin but what you’ve done is to the highest degree, incest, are u mad? how on earth will u do that?
Please, it’s not late but I’ll advise u to disconnect from this Man you call uncle
he is a devil sent to destroy your blessings. just imagine how your family will take this upon hearing. kindly block him, make confession and move on. his presence and petty kindness an never sustain you, God has a better plan for you dear. you just take a firm decision, live your life in Christ and watch what God has for you.
In a humble prayer, may God forgive your sins, sanctify your soul and help you to live according to His will 🙏🙏🙏
Amen to your prayer.
“Let He who is without sin cast a stone”.
We have all done things, we enjoyed that is forbidden in the sight of our God and Society.
We however in our moments of lucidity vow never to go back but we sometimes fail. That is one of the things that makes us human. Love is one of the best things in the world; but you need to first love yourself.
I urge you to keep trying and praying for strength to overcome this huge hurdle.
Let us all who have read this post not condemn Leah but pray with and for her.
thank you.
Leah…above all that has been said….please after you’ve overcome,make a spiritual inquisition about this so that you and your generation do not suffer.Remember the accuser of the brethren will keep coming at you when you become ignorant about the spiritual consequences.You can dm me for assistance.The mercy of God see you through