My ex is threatening me. She says she’s going to curse me because I used and dumped her. Before you judge who is wrong and who is right, listen to what happened…
We exchanged contacts on Tuesday and started talking and texting on Wednesday. I liked her. She had all the qualities I wanted in a woman but I wanted to take my time to know her well; what makes her thick? What other qualities does she possess? What kind of future I could build with her.
One Friday she asked that we go out and I agreed. We had a lot to drink and a lot to eat. She was sparkling. Every word she said drew me into her so we ended the night with a proposal. She didn’t stretch it. She simply said, “I like you too and I usually don’t stretch it when I love the man.”
On our way home she asked me, “So you mean I should go home? Don’t you think we have to consummate this new love we’ve found?”
So we ended up at my place and spent the night together.
In the morning, she asked me to give her transportation to go home and I did. When she got home, she called to tell me there was nothing in the house so I should send her something to buy food and I did. The next day, it was her phone having problems so she needed a new one. I told her to give me some time to figure something out. Days later, her mother was sick and she needed assistance.
I was in the office when she called, “Eiii my man, you’re not romantic at all. Look at how high the sun is. Won’t you say by now your baby hasn’t eaten anything so let me package something and send it through delivery? I like my men to surprise me so surprise me.”
I sent her food.
The request never stopped coming and a man has to think fast. I spoke to her; “Dear, we just met. Why don’t you tone it down with all these requests? Take it slowly.”
She took it the wrong way and started shouting, “What have I asked from you? The food that you sent me? How much is that? And what is wrong if I ask something from my boyfriend? We just met but you had sex with me, right? Even the phone you promised me you haven’t bought it so what aaa have I taken from you that you’re complaining?”
To cut a long story short, I broke up with her. She was sending messages and voice notes insulting me and saying I’d used and dumped her. I blocked her. She knows my house so she came around threatening me, “I will curse you for how you used and dumped me. Do you think I’m one of those girls? You don’t know me. You wait and see. Your joystick won’t even get up for you to yearn for another woman.”
The question is, what did I do wrong? Not that I’m scared but do you think if she curses me, the curse will work? What I did to her the last time she came around I don’t think she will come back again but I’m wondering what she can do.
—Ema
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Ha ha ha ha! Maybe this will discipline your joystick to be patient and more discerning! On a more serious note how can you even loose a wink of sleep from this olooshe turned stomach prophet? You did the right thing getting rid of her. If she persists, get the Police to arrest her and bond her to be of good behavior.
It won’t work since you done no wrong.
She can’t do you foko.
Forget her but take a serious lesson out of this.
Also, it seems you somehow promised or agreed to get her the phone. So if you hv the means, get it for her and if she try another nonsense after, get her arrest fast.
As for the curse, forget it, it won’t work.
Bro, end it peacefully with her by buying her the phone. Is better that way. You hv very reason to complain but don’t wait to regret it.
Bro she is playing with your mind to get the phone sake of u had sex with her after the prospel after all u didn’t force her u both agreed to it and after it has be done she is using it against u to get something from u what if u buy and give her phone another time it will be something else that u can’t afford the best thing is to end things with her and focus on ur life cos if she curse u right now it going to affect her also and put ur life in order before having sex with any lady and this is a lesson u have to learn to guide urself against some women. And also be prayerful even in ur next relationship before decide to have sex with the next woman u would find
Bro, I can understand your concern concerning the curse. She’s just trying to pull one over your head because she knows very well she’s not going to get all the goodies easily from anyone when you leave. When I say she’s just trying to pull one over your head, I mean to say, she’s using your current state of confusion to salvage the little she can get. Ignore that curse and it won’t work. From your narrative, she even initiated the idea of going home to ‘consummate’ the new relationship. Also, you two are both adults and you didn’t force her into having sex with you. It was consensual I believe so boss, forget, that curse won’t work. From where I stand, I can confidently say it’s a behavior pattern on her part. You might not be the only victim of this behavior pattern. That’s how I’m seeing this. And oh, don’t buy her that phone. Block her and move on with your life.
P.S.: As humans, we’re all hypocrites from time to time. She wants to curse because she hasn’t done cynical things to hurt people before I guess? That said, I’m not implying you did something cynical to her. Humans tend to forget they were once the ‘demons’ in someone’s story but were never demoralized but the moment someone else takes the role of that ‘demon’, they remember how bitter they can be.
CURSE WON’T WORK!
DON’T BUY THAT PHONE!
MOVE ON WITH A CLEAR CONSCIENCE!
Cutting off the head ain’t the remedy for a severe headache. Yeah, the best thing to do it to cut her off but not in an aggressive or fussy manner. She said she’s going to curse you bcos you used and dumped her, she also knows the phone will go like that, the food will stop coming. Bro, she’s bluffing, whatever you wanna do, let it go down peacefully but never ever promise such girl anything again. I am sure and convinced she has other victims and will move to another guy if you don’t com through for her. END THING WITH HER PEACEFULLY ✌️